New Year, New ‘Do for Janie

New Year, New ‘Do for Janie

Janie’s hair was looking shaggy.  Here she is, shortly after Christmas, trying on my vest.

I asked Philip to take Janie for a quick haircut at the nearest Super Cuts after dinner.  Nothing but the best for our little princess!


Can I tell you how much I love having a husband who’s willing to take our daughter to get her haircut?  I suppose we both have the mentality that the worst that could happen is a bad haircut that will grow out.


I asked Philip to tell the hairstylist to please trim Jane’s hair to just below her chin and to clean up her bangs.  We ended up with a short, short bob, but Jane can rock it.

Her hair’s wet in these pics because she had just had her evening bath, but you get the general idea.

Janie + Barney = BFF
Bedtime story with Daddy

Nighty, night, sweetie!

New Year, New 'Do for Janie

New Year, New 'Do for Janie

Janie’s hair was looking shaggy.  Here she is, shortly after Christmas, trying on my vest.

I asked Philip to take Janie for a quick haircut at the nearest Super Cuts after dinner.  Nothing but the best for our little princess!


Can I tell you how much I love having a husband who’s willing to take our daughter to get her haircut?  I suppose we both have the mentality that the worst that could happen is a bad haircut that will grow out.


I asked Philip to tell the hairstylist to please trim Jane’s hair to just below her chin and to clean up her bangs.  We ended up with a short, short bob, but Jane can rock it.

Her hair’s wet in these pics because she had just had her evening bath, but you get the general idea.

Janie + Barney = BFF
Bedtime story with Daddy

Nighty, night, sweetie!

Let the Children Come to Me

Let the Children Come to Me

This year, we started after-dinner singing in front of the Advent wreath and Nativity scene.  I’ve found Jane going over to the buffet table where they’re resting to look at them throughout the day.  

Here she is, looking at the Advent wreath and Nativity scene during one of our singing sessions.
She loves pointing out the different figures in the Nativity scene, blowing out the Advent wreath candles from afar–even when they’re not lit, and singing her own rendition of “O Come, O Come, Emmanuel.”  It sounds a lot like “O Come, O Come, O coooooooooooooooooooome.”  

Yesterday, I was folding laundry in the living room.  Jane ran off with the laundry basket, and I heard her banging it in front of the buffet table.  This could only mean one thing.  She was on a mission to see Baby Jesus.  I grabbed the camera to catch this:
 
Sure enough, I found her, standing on top of the overturned laundry basket, peering into the stable.  Before she saw me, I watched her wave into the stable and say, “Hi, Jesus!”  She picked up the Baby Jesus out of the manger, brought him to her chest in a hug, said, “Awwwwwwww, I love you, Jesus” and then gave him a big kiss with a “Muwah!”  
Oh, man.  Talk about an “I could just eat you up” moment!  I couldn’t help but let out a “Awwwww” of my own.  
When Janie realized she’d been spotted, she said, “Mama!  Look!  Jesus!  Mawwy!  Jo-sip!  Cow!  Flying!”  She had to show me all of the players in the Nativity scene. 
To convince her to leave the Nativity scene in peace (and not in pieces!), I told her that Jesus was tired and that he needed to go night-night.  She stuck him back in the manger.  “Night-night, Jesus!  Shhhhh, Mama!  Jesus sleeping!”
Catholicism Series by Fr. Robert Barron

Catholicism Series by Fr. Robert Barron

Finding out about the Catholic Faith has never been made easier or more fun thanks to the Catholicism Series by Fr. Robert Barron!  
Fr. Robert Barron created a groundbreaking program for adults to explore what Catholics believe and why.  The program “uses the art, architecture, literature, music and all the treasures of the Catholic tradition to illuminate the timeless teachings of the Church.”
According to the Catholicism Series site, the program includes: 
  • Ten compelling episodes from the series on DVD. Filmed in 50 locations throughout 15 countries, the CATHOLICISM DVDs reveal these truths in a visually-breath taking and compelling way, with original, high-definition cinematography.
  • A companion study lesson written by Carl Olson for each DVD, complete with extensive commentary, questions for understanding and also questions for application to each participant’s own life.
  • CATHOLICISM: Journey to the Heart of the Faith, a companion book based on a more detailed rendering of the scripts from the DVD series
  • Leader’s Program Kit, including facilitator’s guide and study guide answer key
  • Promotional materials to announce the upcoming program in your location
  • Spanish and English subtitles included in each DVD set
  • Can be experienced in 12 or 22 sessions
Fortunately, several parishes are offering the series for their parishoners so that they need only pay for the study materials.  My parish, for example, is offering the 12-week series for parishoners, and they’re providing childcare.  Philip and I are looking forward to having a weekly date night where we can find out more about our faith at the same time!  

If your parish isn’t offering the Catholicism series, maybe another parish will.  Call your archdiocesan office, check their website, ask at your local Catholic bookstore.  There are so many phenomenal formation opportunities–we need only seek them out.  

If the series isn’t available near you, try checking the PBS and EWTN programming schedule.  Both stations are airing portions of the program.  You can also purchase the book or other material a la cart. 
 
Don’t just take my word for it.  Watch and read the endorsements of the program by other prominent Catholics such as Archbishop Timothy Dolan (Archbishop of New York City), George Weigel (Biographer of Blessed John Paul II), Tom Peterson (Founder and Creator of the Catholics Come Home®), and many more.
First Christmas Without Them

First Christmas Without Them

As beautiful and joyous as Christmastime can be, it can be equally painful for those still suffering from the loss of a loved one–especially if this is their first Christmas without them. 

James Ferdinand Irwin’s family singing carols at early family reunion Christmas celebration marking safe return of sons fr. WWII (L-R) Mr. Irwin, Scotty, Carolyn, Betty Roush, Jim, Myra Lee Love, Jack, Jeanne Haney, Mrs. Irwin, Jeff Haney, Levern Love, Beth Love.© Time Inc. Myron Davis (Photo found on:  http://kcmeesha.com/2009/12/06/old-photos-old-timey-christmas/)

The EWTN online Advent devotional I’ve been reading throughout Advent suggests sending a letter to someone you know who has lost a loved one this last year.  Today’s blog post “A Different Kind of Christmas List” by Jennifer Fulwiler suggests doing the same. 

It’s so easy in the hustle, bustle, and excitement of the season to forget about those who are feeling alone and in pain.  In her blog post, Fulwiler shares the words of two people who recently lost a loved one.  They said that they felt alone in their pain during Christmas and that those who gave them a phone call, sent an e-mail, or wrote a card lifted them up.

Fulwiler took the idea of writing the letter further.  She says this is what she’s going to do:

I’m going to write a list of the contact information of people I know who may be aching for lost loved ones, and bring it with me to my Christmas celebrations. And in the midst of the hustle and bustle of Christmas day, I’ll carve out time to send an email or make a quick phone call to let them know I’m thinking of them, and that they’re in my prayers.

I love that she’s keeping the physical list of people with her as she runs errands, goes to Christmas parties, attends Mass, etc.  It’s a tangible reminder to keep those people and their deceased loved ones in prayer. 

I’m stealing this idea.  Since I’m at home more than I’m out and about, I’m posting these people’s names on my bathroom medicine cabinet and kitchen counter.  That way, after the letters are written, I am still reminded to continue to lift them up in prayer.
  
The corporal and spiritual works of mercy are on my brain since my 8th grade religious education students are learning them.  In addition to comforting your loved one, this simple action lives out two spiritual works of mercy: comforting the afflicted and praying for the living and the dead. 

Do you know someone who could use a phone call, e-mail, or letter?  

You Need Catholic Answers Live In Your Life!

Philip gave me an iPod Nano for our first Christmas together.  He had it engraved, “I love you, Catherine.”  That extravagant gift quite literally changed my life.  I know I have a tendency to exaggerate, but this time I’m not kidding.  I enjoyed listening to music, but I quickly discovered the world of podcasting, and I became addicted to a podcast called Catholic Answers Live.  This radio show put me on fire for my Catholic Faith in a way I had never experienced before. 
I’d describe the show myself, but the show’s website does a much better job of describing it:

Catholic Answers Live, hosted by Patrick Coffin, is a daily, two-hour radio program dedicated to Catholic apologetics and evangelization. According to listener surveys, it is a runaway favorite on Catholic stations across America. 

As a call-in program, Catholic Answers Live connects listeners to prominent leaders in the Church today—including scholars, nuns, priests, bishops, and cardinals—and touches on every aspect of our lives as Christians. You’ll hear discussions on just about everything relating to the Church: doctrinal controversies, family concerns,  social issues, evangelization, ethics…you name it! 

Catholic Answers Live airs every Monday through Friday from 6-8 PM Eastern (3-4 PM Pacific) on over 160 AM and FM stations in the United States, Sirius Satellite Radio channel 130, and through the Internet at catholic.com. If you can’t listen live, you can subscribe to our podcast or download individual shows from our MP3 archive.
Call in with your question at 1-888-31-TRUTH!

I will be forever indebted to the show for tackling the most difficult issues and common objections to the Catholic faith.  The show’s host, Patrick Coffin, is not only funny, but he does a great job of making sure the callers stay on topic, clarifications are made, and as many callers as possible get on each hour to speak with the guest.  Typically, the show has a different guest and topic for each hour.  
Regular features on the show include:
  • Q&A Open Forums.  Tuesdays and Thursdays are typically “Q&A Open Forums” where anyone can call in with any question so long as it’s faith-related.  Q&A guests are usually apologists like Tim Staples, Jimmy Akin, Jim Blackburn, Karl Keating, or Patrick Madrid. 
  • Q&A Open Forums for Non-Catholics.  On these days, anyone other than practicing Catholics can call in with a question.
  • The Chaplain is In.  Fr. Vincent Serpa, O.P. answers chaplain-related questions.
  • From the Heart with Mother Miriam of the Lamb of God (formerly known as Rosalind Moss).  Mother Miriam answers questions with a mother’s care and her obvious heart knowledge of God.
  • Pro-Life Open Forum with Dr. George Delgado.  Callers ask questions about anything related to pro-life issues.    
  • Bioethics for the Rest of Us with Fr. Tad Pacholczyk from the National Catholic Bioethics Center.  Callers ask questions about anything related to bioethical issues.  
  • Scriptural Apologetics with John Martignoni.  John Martignoni uses Sacred Scripture to reveal truths about the Catholic Faith and debate these truths with non-Catholics. 
  • Reel Life: Movies Reviewed with Steven D. Greydanus.  Callers ask questions about movies and Greydanus gives his review of the movie in light of the Catholic Faith.  
  • The New Age Deception with Sharon Lee Giganti.  Sharon Lee discusses anything related to the New-Age movement, and callers ask her related questions.  
If you are interested in listening to the show, you have a few options:
  1. Listen via podcast by downloading it on iTunes or on the Catholic.com website under “podcasts.”
  2. Find a local radio station that broadcasts the show.  The show broadcasts live 3-5 p.m. Pacific.  Click here for a list of stations carrying the show.  
  3. Tune in to Sirius Satellite Radio’s EWTN station  on channel 130. 
  4. If you are using a satellite dish, tune your dish to satellite G-1, transponder 11. An analog feed is at 5.4 audio and a digital feed is at 951 audio.
As a cradle Catholic, it was easy for me to take my faith for granted.  It wasn’t until I discovered Catholic Answers Live in college that I started to view the Church as a vibrant, exciting, fulfilling place where I could find peace and meaning as a young woman.  
Now that I’m a stay-at-home mom, I listen to Catholic radio while I work on things around the house.  Catholic Answers Live is still my favorite.  I’m able to listen on my iPhone, and I carry it around the house with me as I lug loads of laundry up and down stairs, change diapers, dust, do the dishes, etc.  I learn at least one new thing each time I listen to the show. 
In addition to the fabulous radio show, Catholic Answers offers:
  • A growing collection of books, tracts, booklets, CDs, and DVDs published by the apostolate and designed to bring the public the best in Catholic apologetics and evangelization. These may be ordered through Catholic Answers’ on-line shop, along with hundreds of solid, faith-building resources by other top-notch Catholic publishers.
  • Catholic Answers Magazine, the premier periodical on apologetics and evangelization;
  • A Correspondence Department that provides answers to the pressing questions of thousands of people who contact Catholic Answers each year.
  • Multiple web resources that present a broad range of information about Scripture and the teachings of the Church and that assist visitors in tapping into the various branches of the apostolate.
I regularly visit the online forums and post questions to fellow Catholics.  
Patrick Coffin, the Catholic Answers Live radio show host, is fond of quoting Bishop Fulton J. Sheen.  One of his favorite quotes is,There are not more than 100 people in the world who truly hate the Catholic Church, but there are millions who hate what they perceive to be the Catholic Church.”  I use this quote to sum up the work of the Catholic Answers apostolate.  Even as a cradle Catholic, I had a lot of the common misconceptions about the Church before listening to the show–and I went through 12 years of Catholic education!  I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been listening to the show and said to myself, “Oh!  So that’s why…” (fill in the blank with something dealing with Catholicism).  Catholic Answers made me a better Catholic because it show
ed me what the Church really is and untaught the untruths the world had given me.  I know it’s had an impact on countless others, too.  One of my favorite parts about listening to the show is hearing a militant atheist or self-proclaimed “Sola Scriptura” protestant call, ready to tear apart some aspect of Catholicism, but they end up thanking the host for their answers and for being so charitable in their response. 
Maybe you’re struggling with some aspect about Catholicism.  Maybe you hate the Church!  Give the show a call, and pose your objections or questions.  Listen for an hour.  I dare you not to walk away with a new perspective or a deeper appreciation for the beauty of Christ’s Church.       
Do yourself a favor and check out the Catholic Answers website where you’ll find more information about the Catholic Answers Live show, online forums, the magazine, and many other resources.
Enjoy!     
Thank You, Duggar Family

Thank You, Duggar Family

Michelle and Jim Bob Duggar became household names thanks to their TLC reality show “19 Kids and Counting.”  The family made headlines this fall when the family announced they were expecting another child in April 2012.  Public opinion swirled around whether or not Michelle was too old, if they had too many children, what kind of parents they must be, whether they were exploiting their children for monetary gain, etc. 
Michelle went to her routine 19-week ultrasound to find out the baby’s gender on December 8th, and a heartbeat could not be found.  Michelle miscarried the baby naturally on December 11th.  The Duggars named the baby Jubilee Shalom.  In a video message Michelle recorded for Jubilee, she says that her name means “joyful celebration of peace.”
Unfortunately, this time of loss did not escape public scrutiny.  After the Duggars learned at their ultrasound that their baby had died, they decided to have portraits of Jubilee taken through Now I Lay Me Down To Sleep.  Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep (NILMDTS) was created in 2005.  According to their website, 

“The Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep mission is to introduce remembrance photography to parents suffering the loss of a baby with the free gift of professional portraiture. Thousands of families from many different backgrounds and faiths have received services as a way to capture these precious images of their baby. Many families are unprepared for the loss they will suffer. Sometimes having only moments with their child, these images provide tangible proof that their child was real. For many, this is an important part of their healing process. NILMDTS has a network of 7,000 photographers worldwide.”

The photos, leaked somehow to the media, have become the center of a controversy.  Some seem to think that the photos are too graphic, that the family is disgusting for posting images of their dead baby, and that this is all part of some publicity stunt.  (How someone can post such hateful and ignorant comments about a family suffering the loss of their baby is beyond me, but that’s another post.)  My impression is that those troubled by the images are troubled with the reality of the images.  Jubilee Duggar’s little hands and feet are those of a baby, not a mere blob of tissue. 

Image from TMZ
Regardless of how the media came upon the pictures of Jubilee (which were intended for the memorial service and family use), Jubilee’s little 19-week-old hands and feet are giving the world a beautiful pro-life message.  A photo of Michelle holding Jubilee’s little feet on the family blog has the caption, “There is no foot too small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world.” 
 
The stories in the secular media exclusively talk about the Duggar family losing their “baby,” not a “fetus.”  Almost overwhelmingly, the online news story comment boxes are full of support for the Duggar family and the loss of their baby.  Here’s an LA Times story, and here’s a People Magazine article.  Unlike previous news stories about the family, the comments generally say that regardless of their personal opinions of the number of children the Duggars have or how they raise their children, they are sad for the family’s loss.  The vitriolic and hateful posts are refreshingly few and far between.  
Thank you, Duggar family.  
Thank you for being unapologetic in your love for your baby and your celebration of her.

Thank you for giving your baby a name that we now associate with those pictures.
Thank you for showing all of us that Jubilee’s life was not too short to be commemorated in a beautiful memorial service.  
Thank you for showing us that taking pictures of the children lost in the womb or shortly after birth is a beautiful, healthy, and special treasure for grieving families.  Thank you for indirectly bringing about awareness of Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep and other bereavement resources through the images of Jubilee. 
Thank you, Michelle, for reminding us to always count the babies here and in heaven.  In her audio message to Jubilee, Michelle says that from now one when someone asks her how many children she has, she will respond by saying 21, explaining “19 here, and 2 in heaven.”

Give Teenagers More Credit

Give Teenagers More Credit

I started teaching an eighth grade religious education class at my parish this fall.  In my archdiocese, students receive the Sacrament of Confirmation as eighth graders.  Knowing that Confirmation is on the horizon, combined with my students’ apathy for their spiritual development, has been the source of a lot of anxiety and doubt.
I started the year with high hopes and high expectations.  I expected that my students would be familiar with the Bible, be able to look up Scripture verses, know basic tenets of the Catholic faith, be able to recite common prayers, regularly attend Mass with their families, and have a basic understanding of what the Mass actually is.  
Throughout the course of the semester, I have had to revisit my class goals and expectations.  Slowly but surely, I developed a course of action appropriate for my students that would prepare them for their Confirmation in March.

I had more than my fair share of classes that I would call “epic fails.”  Fortunately, I had several weeks in November where we had guest speakers and Thanksgiving break to afford me the opportunity to take it to prayer.  God humbled me and taught me a lot:  I need to be okay with meeting my students where they are, answer their questions, reassure them that it is okay to have doubts, and to show them that the Catholic Church loves them and wants them to call it Home.  
In preparation for my lesson last night, I decided the topic would be making a New Year’s Prayer Resolution.
I started the class by having them take an inventory of the activities they do each day, how much time they spend on each activity, and how they prioritize these activities in their lives.  
 
Then we discussed the results of their inventory using these questions: 
  1. Which 3 activities, other than school, do I spend the most time on?  How did I say I prioritize these activities (1-14)? 
  2. Do my priorities and how I spend my time line up?  (In other words, am I spending the most time on things that I say are my top priorities?)
  3. If my priorities and how I spend my time are out of sync, what changes do I need to make?  Are there any activities I need to cut or limit in my life?

After that brief discussion, we talked about the different kinds of prayer.

First, we talked about having a “healthy prayer diet.”  I briefly introduced the “ACTS” model of using Adoration, Contrition, Thanksgiving, and Supplication to format prayer. 
Second, we talked about the differences between formulaic and spontaneous prayer.  We talked about how beautiful the formulaic prayers are.  We talked about the “Our Father” being given to us directly from Christ, the Scriptural sources of the “Hail Mary,” and the beautiful other devotions such as the Rosary.  I emphasized the importance of praying the words rather than merely saying them.  I introduced spontaneous prayer as being a kind of conversation with God where the words are not prepared ahead of time.  I emphasized here that it is important to remember that this should not sound like any other conversation we have with a good friend, and to remember that it is God we are talking to.  It doesn’t have to be formal,
but it does need to be prayerful.  

I introduced meditation by encouraging them to close their eyes and use their imagination to make them present at the birth of Christ, using a Scripture reading as our guide.  I read through the passage and asked them to imagine being different participants in the story–even the silent ones like the animals.  They absolutely loved being exposed to this new way of experiencing Scripture!  One of my regularly “too cool” male students said to his neighbor, “That was actually cool!”  I love how teenagers don’t think we can hear their conversations.  It makes these comments all the more moving.

I briefly discussed contemplation as being a “heart to heart” conversation with God, where we just sit with Him and ask Him to speak to us.  I said how blessed we are as Catholics to be able to go to the “real deal” in the Blessed Sacrament–that we can sit and literally gaze upon Him.
  
 
I told my students about my sister and brother-in-law’s awesome tradition of sharing a weekly holy hour.  They asked what you actually do at a holy hour.  I told them that everyone does something a little different–some people bring devotional readings, some people journal, some people pray the Rosary, some people sit in complete silence.  The basic idea, I said, is to spend time with Christ. 
 “Could you not keep watch with me for one hour?” Matthew 26:40
Leave all other distractions at the door, open your heart up to Christ, and allow His presence in the Blessed Sacrament to penetrate your soul.  
A student who usually zones out, doodles, and makes smart-alek remarks was completely focused on this part of the class.  After I described a holy hour, his mouth was wide open, and he said, “That sounds like the coolest thing you could ever do!  Awesome!”  The skeptic in me thought he was being sarcastic, and so did the other students, so they started to laugh.  He said, “No, no, seriously.  That is, like, amazing.  Jesus is really there!”  All I could do was tear up and say, “Yeah, isn’t it awesome?”
Then we talked about how to practically establish a prayer habit:
Step 1:  Create Your Own Prayer Station Arsenal. 

Place a star next to the items that you would include in your own prayer station.  List any other items that you would like to have in your prayer station.

Helpful Tools Include:

       Books of lives of the saints

       Catechism of the Catholic Church

       Bible (New American Bible or Revised Standard Version)

       Rosary

       Holy Cards

       Daily Missal

       Other devotional books by Catholic authors (see Catholic.com for ideas)

       Journal

       Candle

       Other items:

   
Step 2:  Make a Daily “Date With God”

1.     Find a time that you can spend at least 10 minutes of interrupted time in prayer.  My time is:  _____________________________________________________________

2.     Where will you have this “Date With God”? 

____________________________________________________________________________________

3.     I will do this to remind myself to have my “Date With God”:

____________________________________________________________________________________

4.     Find other times throughout the day that you can offer up prayers to God.  Examples include:

a.     When you hear an ambulance

b.     Every time you walk up or down a flight of stairs

c.      When you are waiting for a web page to open or for your computer to start up

d.     Doing chores

e.     Random times throughout the day when I can offer prayer are:

I brought my prayer box that I wrote about in my previous post on creating a prayer routine.  I picked out all of my devotional items, flipped through my journal, told them that I pray for them by name, and de
scribed my individual prayer routine as well as how we pray with our children and how Philip and I pray together before bed.  
I concluded the lesson by asking them to journal for five minutes on their New Year’s Prayer Resolution.  Usually, I struggle to get them to do much of anything for one minute, let alone five.  I don’t know what it was, but they stayed focus for those five minutes, writing and writing.  When the time was up, I asked them if they had any questions about prayer and if the lesson was helpful.  They asked a few questions, and one of my female students said, “Wow, I didn’t know you could just talk to God.  That’s really cool.  I’m starting a journal.”  Several of them echoed, “Yeah.”  
I told them I’d like to close the lesson with a prayer before we had a little Christmas party.  The student who was really excited about holy hours said, “Oh, good!  I really like your prayers.”  Who were these kids, and what had they done with my old students???  After saying a spontaneous prayer to God asking for the safety and rest of my students over their Christmas vacation, I opened it up for petitions.  They volunteered very deep, personal, and thoughtful prayers, which showed me that they were beginning to trust more in God and one another.  We closed with an “Our Father.” 
We spent the last ten minutes of class munching on cookies, drinking pop, and discussing our plans over Christmas break.  They all thanked me (another welcome change), several wished me a Merry Christmas, and one gave me a box of cookies she baked all by herself.  
I was in the depths of despair with this group prior to bringing my concerns to prayer.  Unfortunately, I’m not exaggerating!  Only after humbling myself and figuring out that it’s not up to me to make this class a success, God took over.  He will never cease to amaze me with what He can do.  I can actually see many of the students coming on fire for Christ.  Now, I really look forward to the rest of this year with these students, and I know I am going to be sad when the year comes to an end.   
Family Photo Shoot

Family Photo Shoot

Philip’s talented mom (aka “Mimi”) took our pictures in late November.  Here’s a sampling.  Didn’t she do a great job?  I love the colors!

Janie, 21 months

 Walt, 6 months
The Whole Gang

Menu Planning and Grocery Shopping

Menu Planning and Grocery Shopping

It took me awhile to develop my current system of menu planning and grocery shopping, but I’ve finally settled on something that works for me.  I’d love to hear about your system. 

Choosing Recipes
1.  Search through favorite cookbooks.  A few of my favorite cookbooks include:

2.  Search for recipe by ingredients I already have or on favorite sites.  A few of my favorites are:

  • eatingwell.com
  • delish.com
  • epicurious.com
  • allrecipes.com  (in my experience, this one is hit or miss because the users reviewing the recipes tend to completely change the original recipe!)
  • Crockin’ Girls  (They have a Facebook page and a website.  I’ve used my crockpot more in the last six months than in my entire married life thanks to these easy, tasty recipes.)

3.  Go to my saved, loose recipes.  I’m the process of organizing my recipes.  I have several on index cards, many in a three-ring binder separated by category, and plenty bookmarked on the computer.  I’m still figuring out how to organize them.  I’m considering making my own online recipe book using Googledocs.

Making the List
Going to the grocery store is quite the outing these days.  Usually, I can get a solid half an hour of shopping in before Janie gets ants in her pants or Walt decides he needs a new diaper.  Having limited time to grab the food and go means that I had to create a system to make shopping as efficient as possible.  To do this, Philip created this handy-dandy list in Microsoft Word. 

I print off five of these at the start of each month and stick them on the fridge with a magnet.  I add to the list as we run out of items, and I use this to organize items as I make the weekly shopping list.  Having the ingredients organized helps me to be more efficient at the store.

It’s also important for me to be efficient with my cart space and position of items because I have Janie buckled into the front of the cart, Walt in the basket in his infant carrier, and the diaper bag on the lower area.  I don’t know what I’m going to do when I finally get Walt out of the infant carrier.  He has an inch and two pounds left before he officially has to graduate from the infant carrier.  That’s a whole different story, though.  Back to making the list…

Once I got to know the stores where I buy items, I noticed myself even writing items in the order I’d encounter them in the store.  For example, my produce is organized first by fruits and then by veggies.

Creating the Menu
While making the grocery list, I write out the week’s menu on some cute stationery.  Philip bought me a cute magnetic pad like this that I have on the fridge. 

I use it to make my to-do lists and write out our weekly menu.  I’ve found that writing out the days of the week with what we’re having for dinner each night holds me accountable to making that day’s dinner.  Having a plan means that we eat out less often and we waste less money on food that we don’t eat.  It translates into smaller waistlines and more fun money.  I write out the main dish, any sides, where I found the recipe, and any important notes like “crockpot recipe” or “marinate meat for 6 hours before prep.” 

Take Time to Edit
During or after each meal, Philip and I talk about things we’d do to change the meal for next time.  Next to or directly on the recipe, I add ingredients, cross out ingredients, adjust amounts, etc.  This ensures that we’re eating the recipe exactly to our liking for next time.  Very rarely, we’ll decide that the recipe isn’t worth making again, so I’ll write a big “X” over it if it’s in a cookbook.

What do you do?
So, what’s your system?  I’d love to hear it. 

Someday, my dream is to do the shopping like my mom used to.  She could go to the store with several recipes in her head, three (or more) kids in tow, and manage to get every ingredient she needed.  How do you do that?!   

CBS News “The Catholic Church: A House Divided?” (Part 2)

Here are the issues addressed in the CBS report “The Catholic Church: A House Divided?”:
  1. The excommunication of Sr. Margaret Mary McBride, R.S.M. in the Diocese of Phoenix, Arizona.
  2. “Power-obsessed” Bishops
  3. Vatican II
  4. New Translation of the Roman Missal  
  5. Apostolic Visitation to Religious Orders
  6. Current status of St. Margaret Mary McBride and St. Joseph’s Catholic Hospital  

I covered issues 1-2 in Part 1.  Here was my summary:

  1. Sr. McBride automatically excommunicated herself by counseling the medical staff at St. Joseph Catholic Hospital to perform an abortion.
  2. Bishop Olmsted acted charitably in acting as messenger in bringing this to Sr. McBride’s attention.  
  3. Bishops who work to ensure that the faithful in their area are acting in accord to the laws of the church are not “power-obsessed”; they are exercising their office in the Church that Christ created.

Now, onto issues 3-6.

Issue 3:  Vatican II 
Not surprisingly, the report tries to make the case through interviews that, “They’re just trying to reverse the changes of Vatican II”  argument.


I wonder how many Catholics, let alone non-Catholics, have actually read all of the documents from Vatican II to see what we’re actually talking about.  To get the “real deal,” click on the above link to access the documents directly from the Vatican Website.  Don’t count on the media to interpret these documents for you.



Remember in Part One how the story tried to turn the bishops into “cruel,” “power-obsessed” men?  The story goes on to try drawing a connection between “these events” and Vatican II.

Some see these events – taken together – as symptomatic of a larger effort to reverse reforms set down by the 1960s advisory council that came to be known as Vatican II – reforms which, back then, were seen as an effort to bring the church closer to modern times.

Be wary of any attempts to sum up an entire Church council in a few sentences, let alone from Gary Macy.

“There was a sense that we should try to bring Catholicism up to the 20th and then the 21st century,” said Gary Macy, a professor of theology at California’s Jesuit Santa Clara University. “In all kinds of ways – in scholarship, how do we relate to psychology? How do we relate to political science? How do we relate to modern ethics? All of those questions were opened up. There was much more involvement of the laity in the liturgy, so people felt much more involved. There were less spectators and more participants.”

A few concerns about Gary Macy:

  1. He wrote this book: The Hidden History of Women’s Ordination: Female Clergy in the Medieval West 
  2. He is mentioned in Karl Keating’s article “The Long Way Home: Can Losing Your Faith Be a Step in the Right Direction? from Catholic Answers Magazine.  (Karl Keating is the founder of Catholic Answers)  Keating writes, “Gary Macy, who teaches theology at the University of San Diego, a nominally Catholic school, gives a similar argument.  He thinks the use of wheat bread and wine is merely a tradition, and traditions can be changed—or, at least, exceptions can be made: ‘All kinds of things have been dispensed with in the history of the Church.'” 

Did I mention Gary Macy is the current chair of the Religious Studies department at Santa Clara University
Issue 4: New Translation of the Roman Missal
On November 27, 2011 (the first Sunday of Advent), Catholic churches across the United States started using the 3rd Edition of the Roman Missal.   

The Vatican has now directed American churches to institute a new mass featuring an English translation more faithful to the original Latin – a mass critics say is harder to understand, less English-speaker friendly.

A few things on the new translation:

  1. It’s just that–a new translation, not a “new mass.”
  2. The new translation is a more accurate translation of the original Latin.  Altogether, these changes create a more sacred language more fitting of worship, helping us to life our hearts and minds up to the Lord. 
    • The older translation was created using what is called dynamic equivalence (translating with the goal of creating the same effect in the new language that the words had in the original language).
    • The new translation was created using formal equivalence (translating word for word to replicate the same meaning). 
  3. CBS says the “new mass” is “harder to understand, less English-speaker friendly”
    • Latin’s grammatical structure is different than English, so it is to be expected that there are marked differences (i.e., use of several subordinate clauses).
    • The entire process creates an opportunity for the faithful to learn more about the Mass, its origins, and the words we say.
    • Having to slow down as we learn the new prayers is an opportunity to reflect on what it is we are actually saying.  

Issue 5: Apostolic Visitation to Religious Orders
In yet another attempt to paint “the Vatican” as a secretive, power-hungry empire, the story moves on to the Apostolic Visitation of the Religious Orders across the United States.

And not long ago, the church in Rome exercised that control – launching what’s called an apostolic visitation, a process shrouded in mystery allowing it to investigate orders of nuns here in the United States.

One need do no more than a Google search to find out basic information about the Apostolic Visitation and get in touch with those actually performing the visitation.  Here’s what the official Apostolic Visitation website says about the visitation:

An Apostolic Visitation is a formal but personal process, initiated at the highest levels of the Catholic Church, to look into the welfare of a particular aspect of the Church. Cardinal Franc Rodé, C.M., Prefect of the Vatican’s Congregation for Institutes of Consecrated Life and Societies of Apostolic Life, in a December 22, 2008 decree, initiated the Visitation of apostolic institutes of women religious in the United States and appointed Mother Clare Millea, A.S.C.J., Superior General of the Apostles of the Sacred Heart of Jesus, to serve as the Apostolic Visitator.

Mother Clare is a Connecticut native who has served as superior general of her religious community since 2004. She has complete administrative authority of the Apostolic Visitation and will personally conduct many inquiries and visits. Mother Clare will prepare a confidential report of her findings and observations for Cardinal Rodé at the conclusion of the Visitation.

Cardinal Rodé, a Slovenian, is a member of the Congregation of the Mission, an apostolic community of men commonly called the Vincentians. He has served as prefect of the Congregation for Institutes of Consecrated Life and Societies of Apostolic Life since 2004.

So, lo and behold, it is a woman religious sister named Mother Clare Millea, Superior General of the Apostles of the Sacred Heart of Jesus, who is serving as the official Apostolic Visitator.  She will be the one to write and file the report of her observations of the religious orders across the country.

The Apostolic Visitation seeks to listen to and affirm the dignity of all women religious who serve the Church with exemplary love.

In addition, as Cardinal Rodé recently stated, “this Apostolic Visitation hopes to encourage vocations and assure a better future for women religious.” It offers women religious a valuable opportunity for prayerful and thoughtful self-examination to discern and foster avenues of growth and vitality in their congregations.

Do you have some questions about the visitation?  Lucky for you, there is a special FAQ site on the page.  Perhaps you want to know, “What has prompted this Visitation?”

The Congregation for Consecrated Life is aware that many new congregations have emerged in the United States while many others have decreased in membership or have an increased median age. Apostolic works have also changed significantly because of societal changes.  These and other areas need to be better understood and assessed in order to safeguard and promote consecrated life in the United States.  

Maybe you want to know, “Why are the congregations of male religious not included in this Visitation?”

Various congregations of male religious were interviewed during the recent United States Seminary Study. In addition, this Visitation is guided by the scope of the mandate given to the Visitator.

Maybe you want to know, “Where is all of the information going and with whom will it be shared?”

The Apostolic Visitator will use the data gathered to prepare her report for Cardinal Rodé, Prefect of the Congregation for Institutes of Consecrated life and Societies of Apostolic Life.  The Center for Applied Research in the Apostolate (CARA) will prepare an aggregate report of the quantitative data collected from all reporting institutes in Part A of the Questionnaire. Individual Congregations will not be identified in any way. Cardinal Rodé has authorized the public release of this report (emphasis mine).

That’s a lot of sound information straight from the source actually performing the Visitation.  Wouldn’t someone actually conducting the Visitation be a logical source to interview on the topic?  Instead, CBS reporter Petersen says this:

We reached out to many orders of nuns across the country hoping to get their viewpoints about all of this.

In most cases someone would agree to be interviewed. But when the interview was imminent we would be called and it would be canceled.

In the end, Sister Mary Ann Hinsdale agreed to speak with us – partly, she said, out of concern that if she didn’t, no one would.

CBS tries to make it sound like the sisters they contacted were somehow silenced and that Sr. Mary Hinsdale was a brave, sacrificial lamb, speaking on behalf of the mistreated female religious congregations.

Sr. Mary Ann Hinsdale has authored and co-authored several books, including:  What’s Left?  Liberal American Catholics.  You can search through the book on Amazon.  That’s how I found this quote:

…the experience of women with vocations [to the priesthood] and the experience of a Church with a severe priest shortage push toward changes in Church teaching.

A female religious contributing to a book like this and writing on the topic of women’s ordination is not a likely candidate to be a faithful defender of the faith.  Sister Mary Ann is a member of the order of the Sisters Servants of the Immaculate Heart of Mary. She’s also a professor of theology at Boston College. 

“Do you think this apostolic visitation is something that nuns like yourself, who are out there in the world, should be worried about?” asked Petersen. 

“I really don’t know,” she replied. “But I think the most problematic aspect of it is that we are not going to see a report, and we don’t know what is going to be done with this.”

Please see above.  The Visitation website says a public report of the findings of the Visitation will be made available.

“We were never told what was going to be done with this. And while we think this is, you know, a travesty, really, and insulting even about who we are in the church, because we think we’re trying to be loyal to the church. We’re trying to make, you know, plausible explanations where people are saying, ‘Well, why is the church doing this? Why are they excommunicating people who are, you know, seem to be wanting good for the church?'”

So, Sr. Hinsdale is trying to connect the excommunication of Sr. McBride and the Apostolic Visitation of women religious orders to paint the bishops and Church hierarchy as out to get the sisters.  Let’s re-summarize why this is silly:

  1. Sr. McBride excommunicated herself.  Archbishop Olmsted was merely the charitable messenger.  Also, please continue reading to find out about Sr. McBride’s current status in the Church.
  2. The Apostolic Visitation’s goal is to strengthen and protect women’s religious orders in the United States.  A female religious herself (Mother Clare Millea, Superior General of the Apostles of the Sacred Heart of Jesus) is the Apostolic Visitator.

Petersen decided he wanted another voice on the issue, so he returned to Gary Macy.  Remember him from above?  (The Religious Studies department chair at Santa Clara University and author of The Hidden History of Women’s Ordination: Female Clergy in the Medieval West).  Gary Macy chimes in with why he thinks the Apostolic Visitation of women religious is taking place.

“Why the nuns?” asked theologian Gary Macy. “This is my suspicion: They can.”

“It’s interesting that they would take the women’s religious order, and not the men’s religious orders,” Macy said. “Although, you know, for so many centuries and centuries and centuries in Christianity, women have taken a hit first.”

It looks like Gary Macy needs to look at the Apostolic Visitation website as well.  Remember the Q&A quote from above?  The site says that several of the men’s religious orders were examined in a recent seminary study.


The report cuts back to Sr. Mary Hinsdale after Macy’s comment about women in Christianity always taking the hit first.

When asked why she stays with the Church, Sister Mary Ann Hinsdale said, “Because it’s my church. I have a responsibility to speak the truth that’s been given to me.

Last time I checked, the Catholic Church was Christ’s Church.

“There’s a lot of pain and suffering, I think, in belonging to the Catholic Church today. But I think I’m following as best I can what I think God is asking me to do today in this church as we have it.”

Imagine how differently the interview would look had Petersen interviewed Mother Miriam of the Lamb of God, O.S.B., prioress of Daughters of Mary, Mother of Israel’s Hope (formerly Rosalind Moss).  When asked about the charism of her community in a recent National Catholic Register article, this was her response:  

What thrills me most, apart from being signs to God in the world and the freedom people have in approaching us, is the sense they have that they “own” us, so to speak. That is, they believe that they have free access to us, that we exist for them, that they have a right to expect us to pray for them, to help them, to be God’s arms to them in their need.  It is a beautiful expectation on their part, and, to my mind, that is as it should be.

Contrast the two:  
  1. Sr. Hinsdale says the Catholic Church is “my church,” and that “there’s a lot of pain and suffering…in belonging to the Catholic Church today.”  
  2. Mother Miriam says other people “have a right to expect us to pray for them, to help them, to be God’s arms to them in their need.”  

It comes as no surprise to me that Mother Miriam’s order is flourishing with vocations and that orders that have adopted Sr. Hinsdale’s attitude toward the Catholic Church are the orders that are dying out. 

Issue 6:  Current status of (1) St. Margaret Mary McBride and (2) St. Joseph’s Catholic Hospital 

(1) Current Status of Sr. McBride
Sr. McBride’s excommunication was lifted by Bishop Olmsted, and she resigned as member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Hospital ethics committee.  This is a part of the story that deserves more attention.  Excommunication is not necessarily a permanent condition!  This is the beauty of forgiveness and reconciliation.  When a member of the Church is excommunicated, the onus is on that person to come back into communion with the Church.  To do this, the individual must repent of their sins in the sacrament of reconciliation directly to the bishop or a priest appointed by the bishop to lift the excommunication.  Like all individuals going to the sacrament of reconciliation, the sacrament does not “work” unless the individual is truly repentant of the sin.  By all outward appearances, Sr. McBride is back in communion with the Catholic Church.  Hooray!

(2) Current Status of St. Joseph’s Catholic Hospital
The CBS report says,

To regain its “Catholic” status, the bishop insists that it must say the medical procedure that resulted in the abortion and saved the mother of four was in violation of religious and ethical policies, and will never happen again.

So far, the hospital has refused to do so.

It still cannot call itself Catholic.

This seems pretty straightforward to me.  An institution calling itself “Catholic” needs to operate in line with Church Teaching.  When it does not operate as a Catholic hospital by performing an abortion, why is it offensive to take this title away?  


Summing it all up:

  1. Issue 3:  The Second Vatican Council
    • Don’t count on a secular media source like CBS to sum up an entire Church Council for you.
    • Read the Council documents for yourself here.
  2. Issue 4:  New Translation of the Roman Missal
    • The “critics” in the new translation think it is a “new mass” and are consequently troubled by the changes
  3. Issue 5:  Apostolic Visitation to Religious Orders
    • The actual Visitation is being conducted by a religious sister, and a public report will be made available when the Visitation concludes 
  4. Issue 6:  Current Status of Sr. Margaret Mary McBride and St. Joseph’s Catholic Hospital
    • Sr. McBride is, by all outward appearances, back in communion with the Catholic Church
    • St. Joseph’s Hospital can no longer call itself “Catholic” because:
      • it refuses to admit that the abortion counseled by Sr. McBride was immoral
      • St. Joseph’s refuses to guarantee that another abortion will not take place at the hospital











CBS News "The Catholic Church: A House Divided?" (Part 2)

Here are the issues addressed in the CBS report “The Catholic Church: A House Divided?”:
  1. The excommunication of Sr. Margaret Mary McBride, R.S.M. in the Diocese of Phoenix, Arizona.
  2. “Power-obsessed” Bishops
  3. Vatican II
  4. New Translation of the Roman Missal  
  5. Apostolic Visitation to Religious Orders
  6. Current status of St. Margaret Mary McBride and St. Joseph’s Catholic Hospital  

I covered issues 1-2 in Part 1.  Here was my summary:

  1. Sr. McBride automatically excommunicated herself by counseling the medical staff at St. Joseph Catholic Hospital to perform an abortion.
  2. Bishop Olmsted acted charitably in acting as messenger in bringing this to Sr. McBride’s attention.  
  3. Bishops who work to ensure that the faithful in their area are acting in accord to the laws of the church are not “power-obsessed”; they are exercising their office in the Church that Christ created.

Now, onto issues 3-6.

Issue 3:  Vatican II 
Not surprisingly, the report tries to make the case through interviews that, “They’re just trying to reverse the changes of Vatican II”  argument.


I wonder how many Catholics, let alone non-Catholics, have actually read all of the documents from Vatican II to see what we’re actually talking about.  To get the “real deal,” click on the above link to access the documents directly from the Vatican Website.  Don’t count on the media to interpret these documents for you.



Remember in Part One how the story tried to turn the bishops into “cruel,” “power-obsessed” men?  The story goes on to try drawing a connection between “these events” and Vatican II.

Some see these events – taken together – as symptomatic of a larger effort to reverse reforms set down by the 1960s advisory council that came to be known as Vatican II – reforms which, back then, were seen as an effort to bring the church closer to modern times.

Be wary of any attempts to sum up an entire Church council in a few sentences, let alone from Gary Macy.

“There was a sense that we should try to bring Catholicism up to the 20th and then the 21st century,” said Gary Macy, a professor of theology at California’s Jesuit Santa Clara University. “In all kinds of ways – in scholarship, how do we relate to psychology? How do we relate to political science? How do we relate to modern ethics? All of those questions were opened up. There was much more involvement of the laity in the liturgy, so people felt much more involved. There were less spectators and more participants.”

A few concerns about Gary Macy:

  1. He wrote this book: The Hidden History of Women’s Ordination: Female Clergy in the Medieval West 
  2. He is mentioned in Karl Keating’s article “The Long Way Home: Can Losing Your Faith Be a Step in the Right Direction? from Catholic Answers Magazine.  (Karl Keating is the founder of Catholic Answers)  Keating writes, “Gary Macy, who teaches theology at the University of San Diego, a nominally Catholic school, gives a similar argument.  He thinks the use of wheat bread and wine is merely a tradition, and traditions can be changed—or, at least, exceptions can be made: ‘All kinds of things have been dispensed with in the history of the Church.'” 

Did I mention Gary Macy is the current chair of the Religious Studies department at Santa Clara University
Issue 4: New Translation of the Roman Missal
On November 27, 2011 (the first Sunday of Advent), Catholic churches across the United States started using the 3rd Edition of the Roman Missal.   

The Vatican has now directed American churches to institute a new mass featuring an English translation more faithful to the original Latin – a mass critics say is harder to understand, less English-speaker friendly.

A few things on the new translation:

  1. It’s just that–a new translation, not a “new mass.”
  2. The new translation is a more accurate translation of the original Latin.  Altogether, these changes create a more sacred language more fitting of worship, helping us to life our hearts and minds up to the Lord. 
    • The older translation was created using what is called dynamic equivalence (translating with the goal of creating the same effect in the new language that the words had in the original language).
    • The new translation was created using formal equivalence (translating word for word to replicate the same meaning). 
  3. CBS says the “new mass” is “harder to understand, less English-speaker friendly”
    • Latin’s grammatical structure is different than English, so it is to be expected that there are marked differences (i.e., use of several subordinate clauses).
    • The entire process creates an opportunity for the faithful to learn more about the Mass, its origins, and the words we say.
    • Having to slow down as we learn the new prayers is an opportunity to reflect on what it is we are actually saying.  

Iss
ue 5: Apostolic Visitation to Religious Orders

In yet another attempt to paint “the Vatican” as a secretive, power-hungry empire, the story moves on to the Apostolic Visitation of the Religious Orders across the United States.

And not long ago, the church in Rome exercised that control – launching what’s called an apostolic visitation, a process shrouded in mystery allowing it to investigate orders of nuns here in the United States.

One need do no more than a Google search to find out basic information about the Apostolic Visitation and get in touch with those actually performing the visitation.  Here’s what the official Apostolic Visitation website says about the visitation:

An Apostolic Visitation is a formal but personal process, initiated at the highest levels of the Catholic Church, to look into the welfare of a particular aspect of the Church. Cardinal Franc Rodé, C.M., Prefect of the Vatican’s Congregation for Institutes of Consecrated Life and Societies of Apostolic Life, in a December 22, 2008 decree, initiated the Visitation of apostolic institutes of women religious in the United States and appointed Mother Clare Millea, A.S.C.J., Superior General of the Apostles of the Sacred Heart of Jesus, to serve as the Apostolic Visitator.

Mother Clare is a Connecticut native who has served as superior general of her religious community since 2004. She has complete administrative authority of the Apostolic Visitation and will personally conduct many inquiries and visits. Mother Clare will prepare a confidential report of her findings and observations for Cardinal Rodé at the conclusion of the Visitation.

Cardinal Rodé, a Slovenian, is a member of the Congregation of the Mission, an apostolic community of men commonly called the Vincentians. He has served as prefect of the Congregation for Institutes of Consecrated Life and Societies of Apostolic Life since 2004.

So, lo and behold, it is a woman religious sister named Mother Clare Millea, Superior General of the Apostles of the Sacred Heart of Jesus, who is serving as the official Apostolic Visitator.  She will be the one to write and file the report of her observations of the religious orders across the country.

The Apostolic Visitation seeks to listen to and affirm the dignity of all women religious who serve the Church with exemplary love.

In addition, as Cardinal Rodé recently stated, “this Apostolic Visitation hopes to encourage vocations and assure a better future for women religious.” It offers women religious a valuable opportunity for prayerful and thoughtful self-examination to discern and foster avenues of growth and vitality in their congregations.

Do you have some questions about the visitation?  Lucky for you, there is a special FAQ site on the page.  Perhaps you want to know, “What has prompted this Visitation?”

The Congregation for Consecrated Life is aware that many new congregations have emerged in the United States while many others have decreased in membership or have an increased median age. Apostolic works have also changed significantly because of societal changes.  These and other areas need to be better understood and assessed in order to safeguard and promote consecrated life in the United States.  

Maybe you want to know, “Why are the congregations of male religious not included in this Visitation?”

Various congregations of male religious were interviewed during the recent United States Seminary Study. In addition, this Visitation is guided by the scope of the mandate given to the Visitator.

Maybe you want to know, “Where is all of the information going and with whom will it be shared?”

The Apostolic Visitator will use the data gathered to prepare her report for Cardinal Rodé, Prefect of the Congregation for Institutes of Consecrated life and Societies of Apostolic Life.  The Center for Applied Research in the Apostolate (CARA) will prepare an aggregate report of the quantitative data collected from all reporting institutes in Part A of the Questionnaire. Individual Congregations will not be identified in any way. Cardinal Rodé has authorized the public release of this report (emphasis mine).

That’s a lot of sound information straight from the source actually performing the Visitation.  Wouldn’t someone actually conducting the Visitation be a logical source to interview on the topic?  Instead, CBS reporter Petersen says this:

We reached out to many orders of nuns across the country hoping to get their viewpoints about all of this.

In most cases someone would agree to be interviewed. But when the interview was imminent we would be called and it would be canceled.

In the end, Sister Mary Ann Hinsdale agreed to speak with us – partly, she said, out of concern that if she didn’t, no one would.

CBS tries to make it sound like the sisters they contacted were somehow silenced and that Sr. Mary Hinsdale was a brave, sacrificial lamb, speaking on behalf of the mistreated female religious congregations.

Sr. Mary Ann Hinsdale has authored and co-authored several books, including:  What’s Left?  Liberal American Catholics.  You can search through the book on Amazon.  That’s how I found this quote:

…the experience of women with vocations [to the priesthood] and the experience of a Church with a severe priest shortage push toward changes in Church teaching.

A female religious contributing to a book like this and writing on the topic of women’s ordination is not a likely candidate to be a faithful defender of the faith.  Sister Mary Ann is a member of the order of the Sisters Servants of the Immaculate Heart of Mary. She’s also a professor of theology at Boston College. 

“Do you think this apostolic visitation is something that nuns like yourself, who are out there in the world, should be worried about?” asked Petersen. 

“I really don’t know,” she replied. “But I think the most problematic aspect of it is that we are not going to see a report, and w
e don’t know what is going to be done with this.”

Please see above.  The Visitation website says a public report of the findings of the Visitation will be made available.

“We were never told what was going to be done with this. And while we think this is, you know, a travesty, really, and insulting even about who we are in the church, because we think we’re trying to be loyal to the church. We’re trying to make, you know, plausible explanations where people are saying, ‘Well, why is the church doing this? Why are they excommunicating people who are, you know, seem to be wanting good for the church?'”

So, Sr. Hinsdale is trying to connect the excommunication of Sr. McBride and the Apostolic Visitation of women religious orders to paint the bishops and Church hierarchy as out to get the sisters.  Let’s re-summarize why this is silly:

  1. Sr. McBride excommunicated herself.  Archbishop Olmsted was merely the charitable messenger.  Also, please continue reading to find out about Sr. McBride’s current status in the Church.
  2. The Apostolic Visitation’s goal is to strengthen and protect women’s religious orders in the United States.  A female religious herself (Mother Clare Millea, Superior General of the Apostles of the Sacred Heart of Jesus) is the Apostolic Visitator.

Petersen decided he wanted another voice on the issue, so he returned to Gary Macy.  Remember him from above?  (The Religious Studies department chair at Santa Clara University and author of The Hidden History of Women’s Ordination: Female Clergy in the Medieval West).  Gary Macy chimes in with why he thinks the Apostolic Visitation of women religious is taking place.

“Why the nuns?” asked theologian Gary Macy. “This is my suspicion: They can.”

“It’s interesting that they would take the women’s religious order, and not the men’s religious orders,” Macy said. “Although, you know, for so many centuries and centuries and centuries in Christianity, women have taken a hit first.”

It looks like Gary Macy needs to look at the Apostolic Visitation website as well.  Remember the Q&A quote from above?  The site says that several of the men’s religious orders were examined in a recent seminary study.


The report cuts back to Sr. Mary Hinsdale after Macy’s comment about women in Christianity always taking the hit first.

When asked why she stays with the Church, Sister Mary Ann Hinsdale said, “Because it’s my church. I have a responsibility to speak the truth that’s been given to me.

Last time I checked, the Catholic Church was Christ’s Church.

“There’s a lot of pain and suffering, I think, in belonging to the Catholic Church today. But I think I’m following as best I can what I think God is asking me to do today in this church as we have it.”

Imagine how differently the interview would look had Petersen interviewed Mother Miriam of the Lamb of God, O.S.B., prioress of Daughters of Mary, Mother of Israel’s Hope (formerly Rosalind Moss).  When asked about the charism of her community in a recent National Catholic Register article, this was her response:  

What thrills me most, apart from being signs to God in the world and the freedom people have in approaching us, is the sense they have that they “own” us, so to speak. That is, they believe that they have free access to us, that we exist for them, that they have a right to expect us to pray for them, to help them, to be God’s arms to them in their need.  It is a beautiful expectation on their part, and, to my mind, that is as it should be.

Contrast the two:  
  1. Sr. Hinsdale says the Catholic Church is “my church,” and that “there’s a lot of pain and suffering…in belonging to the Catholic Church today.”  
  2. Mother Miriam says other people “have a right to expect us to pray for them, to help them, to be God’s arms to them in their need.”  

It comes as no surprise to me that Mother Miriam’s order is flourishing with vocations and that orders that have adopted Sr. Hinsdale’s attitude toward the Catholic Church are the orders that are dying out. 

Issue 6:  Current status of (1) St. Margaret Mary McBride and (2) St. Joseph’s Catholic Hospital 

(1) Current Status of Sr. McBride
Sr. McBride’s excommunication was lifted by Bishop Olmsted, and she resigned as member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Hospital ethics committee.  This is a part of the story that deserves more attention.  Excommunication is not necessarily a permanent condition!  This is the beauty of forgiveness and reconciliation.  When a member of the Church is excommunicated, the onus is on that person to come back into communion with the Church.  To do this, the individual must repent of their sins in the sacrament of reconciliation directly to the bishop or a priest appointed by the bishop to lift the excommunication.  Like all individuals going to the sacrament of reconciliation, the sacrament does not “work” unless the individual is truly repentant of the sin.  By all outward appearances, Sr. McBride is back in communion with the Catholic Church.  Hooray!

(2) Current Status of St. Joseph’s Catholic Hospital
The CBS report says,

To regain its “Catholic” status, the bishop insists that it must say the medical procedure that resulted in the abortion and saved the mother of four was in violation of religious and ethical policies, and will never happen again.

So far, the hospital has refused to do so.

It still cannot call itself Catholic.

This seems pretty straightforward to me.  An institution calling itself “Catholic” needs to operate in line with Church Teaching.  When it does not operate as a Catholic hospital by performing an abortion, why is it offensive to take this title away?  


Summing it all up:

  1. Issue 3:  The Second Vatican Council
    • Don’t count on a secular media source like CBS to sum up an entire Church Council for you.
    • Read the Council documents for yourself here.
  2. Issue 4:  New Translation of the Roman Missal
    • The “critics” in the new translation think it is a “new mass” and are consequently troubled by the changes
  3. Issue 5:  Apostolic Visitation to Religious Orders
    • The actual Visitation is being conducted by a religious sister, and a public report will be made available when the Visitation concludes 
  4. Issue 6:  Current Status of Sr. Margaret Mary McBride and St. Joseph’s Catholic Hospital
    • Sr. McBride is, by all outward appearances, back in communion with the Catholic Church
    • St. Joseph’s Hospital can no longer call itself “Catholic” because:
      • it refuses to admit that the abortion counseled by Sr. McBride was immoral
      • St. Joseph’s refuses to guarantee that another abortion will not take place at the hospital











CBS News “The Catholic Church: A House Divided?” (Part 1)

CBS News “The Catholic Church: A House Divided?” (Part 1)

Last Sunday, the CBS News Sunday Morning show aired this “cover story” reported by Barry Petersen:  “The Catholic Church: A House Divided?”  To read the full article or watch the video, click here.   

Patrick Coffin, host of my favorite radio show Catholic Answers Live, is fond of talking about the low standards for journalists reporting on church news.  He likes to say, “If I don’t know what an RBI is, the New York Times is not going to let me write a baseball column for them.  But journalists who know nothing about Christianity are assigned to cover church news all the time.” 

The lack of fact-checking and one-sidedness of this particular story illustrates the sad reality of this truth.

Msgr. Charles Pope did a great job responding to this article in his blog, and I would like to build on his ideas.  There is so much to discuss from this 10-minute video and two-page article, that I’m tackling the issues separately and chronologically as they appear in the video and article. 

Here are the issues addressed in the report:
  1. The excommunication of Sr. Margaret Mary McBride, R.S.M. in the Diocese of Phoenix, Arizona.
  2. “Power-obsessed” Bishops
  3. Vatican II
  4. New Translation of the Roman Missal  
  5. Apostolic Visitation to Religious Orders
  6. Current status of St. Margaret Mary McBride and St. Joseph Catholic Hospital 
Today, I’m tackling numbers 1 and 2.
Issue 1:  Excommunication of Sr. Margaret Mary McBride, R.S.M. in the Diocese of Phoenix, Arizona

Sr. Margaret Mary McBride, R.S.M.
  • CBS Report Says:  Sr. Margaret Mary McBride helped to save a woman’s life and was excommunicated by a cruel, obsessed with control Bishop Olmsted.
  • Reality:  Sr. Margaret Mary McBride counseled the doctors of St. Joseph’s Catholic Hospital to perform a direct abortion and, consequently, excommunicated herself from the Catholic Church.  Bishop Olmsted informed her of this fact.
Examining the Catholic Moral Principles at Work in This Case
The case in question involved a female patient 11 weeks along in her pregnancy who suffered from severe pulmonary hypertension.  Fr. Tad Pacholczyk, Director of Education at the NCBC, is the author of a column called Making Sense out of Bioethics that appears in various diocesan newspapers across the country.   Fr. Tad addresses pregnancies complicated by pulmonary hypertension in his July 2010 article “Difficult Pregnancies, Precarious Choices, and the Absolute Value of Innocent Lives.”   Please take the time to read the brief article in its entirety.  Fr. Tad makes this statement that cuts to the core: “Better two deaths than the direct taking of an innocent life.”

When there is a complicated pregnancy, the medical staff must do everything in its power to save the mother and the baby.  

Recent advances in obstetrics and pre-natal medicine, along with so-called “expectant management” (close monitoring of a pregnancy with tailored interventions), have enabled an ever greater number of these high-risk pregnancies to be managed at least until the child reaches viability. Labor can then be induced or a C-section delivery can be scheduled. This ordinarily allows both mother and child to be saved. 

Fr. Tad concludes the article with this statement:

These challenging “life of the mother” cases allow us to begin acknowledging some of our own limitations, and the mystery of God’s greater Providence, in the realization that we may not be able to “manage” or “correct” every difficult medical situation we face.

Now, let’s connect the Catholic moral principles to this case:  Sr. Margaret Mary McBride was a member of the ethics committee at St. Joseph’s Catholic Hospital in Phoenix, Arizona that hears difficult medical cases and advises the medical staff how to proceed while also being faithful to Catholic Teaching.  Sr. McBride counseled the medical staff to perform a direct abortion.  As established above, the direct killing of a human being to save another is never morally permissible.  I’ll touch on her excommunication below.  

How the CBS Report Paints the Case
The reporter introduces Sr. McBride by the description of “a respected nun” and member of the hospital ethics committee.  After briefly explaining the patient’s medical condition, the reporter says, “Modern medicine presented two equally grim options: terminate the pregnancy and save the mother, or lose both mother and child.”

The reporter interviews Dr. Charles Alfano, St. Joseph’s Chief Medical Officer.  Dr. Charles Alfano claims, “And as a result, we made the difficult decision, but the decision that we had to make, to terminate the pregnancy.”  Petersen glibly asks, “So, no matter what you guys had done, the child would have died?”  Dr. Charles Alfano responds, “Correct.”  This quick exchange excuses the direct killing of the baby because the doctors “had to” do it because child would have likely died had the staff decided to let the pregnancy run its course.    

The report goes on to say that the excommunication of Sr. McBride created a media frenzy, and the video shows a headline that reads, “Why does saving a life merit excommunication?”  Not surprisingly, the story got it wrong.  It was the abortion that caused Sr. McBride’s excommunication, not the consequential survival of the mother.

How Excommunication Works in the Context of Abortion
Canon 1398 states, “a person who procures a completed abortion incurs a latae sententiae (automatic) excommunication.”  So, anyone who performs, receives, encourages, or cooperates in any way with the abortion is automatically excommunicated from the moment the abortion is completed.  A person who is excommunicated must refrain from Holy Communion until after he or she has received absolution in the Sacrament of Confession and absolution from the excommunication.

Because Sr. McBride encouraged the abortion (the direct killing of the baby) as a member of the hospital ethics committee, she incurred a latae sententiae (automatic) excommunication.  Bishop Olmsted’s role was being the messenger in letting Sr. McBride know that she incurred this penalty as a result of her actions. 

What is the purpose of excommunication anyway?  The Catholic Encyclopedia explains it is a “medicinal penalty”:

Being a penalty, it supposes guilt; and being the most serious penalty that the Church can inflict, it naturally supposes a very grave offence. It is also a medicinal rather than a vindictive penalty, being intended, not so much to punish the culprit, as to correct him and bring him back to the path of righteousness. It necessarily, therefore, contemplates the future, either to prevent the recurrence of certain culpable acts that have grievous external consequences, or, more especially, to induce the delinquent to satisfy the obligations incurred by his offence.

Because we believe as Catholics that our actions have eternal consequences, we are in danger of eternal damnation should be die in a state of moral sin (i.e., procuring an abortion).  Since that’s the case, shouldn’t we Catholics be glad that Mother Church, through its ministers, does all that it can to (1) inform its members when they are out of communion, and (2) encourage them to repent of their actions to be back in full communion?      

Issue 2: “Power-Obsessed” Bishops
The report goes on to interview Father Thomas Doyle. 

Father Thomas Doyle, who specializes in church law and once worked for the Vatican’s Embassy in Washington, D.C., said, “The excommunication of the sister, I thought, was an extremely cruel act. I can’t describe it in any other way.”

Father Doyle is now an outspoken critic of the church, and says what happened in Phoenix points to an unfolding trend within the church.

“It tells me that within the hierarchy, there is a great deal of fear, that there is almost an obsession with control, that there’s an inability, I think, to deal with the 21st century.

“The bishop in Phoenix is not unique,” Father Doyle said. “There are many, many like him.”

A few points here:
  1. Sr. McBride automatically excommunicated herself by counseling the medical staff to perform an abortion.  Bishop Olmsted merely informed her of her status as an act of charity.
  2. “what happened in Phoenix points to an unfolding trend within the church.”  
    • The implied trend is that the bishops across the country are going rogue, trying to squash its members and excommunicate anyone who gets in their way.  Characterizing the bishops in this way causes further division and mistrust of the Church leadership.
    • Faithful Catholics should see the medicinal role of excommunication and pray that their bishops will continue to act charitably toward its members, helping them to rectify any actions that may have caused their excommunication. 
Directly following Father Thomas Doyle’s critique of the U.S. bishops, the story lists two examples of U.S. bishops exercising their authority against (1) the schismatic American Catholic Council who wants the Church to ordain women and (2) Sr. Elizabeth Johnson’s “Quest for the Living God” :

Take Archbishop Allen Vigneron in Detroit, who has spoken against the American Catholic Council, a group promoting change within the church, including the ordination of women.

Or the U.S. Conference of Bishops: They’ve critiqued and investigated the writings of Sister Elizabeth Johnson, a feminist theologian whose book “Quest for the Living God” has become popular among liberal Catholics.

A few points on these examples:
  1. The American Catholic Council is a schismatic group acting under the guise of “Church renewal.”  Church renewal is a beautiful thing to be embraced as Archbishop Allen Vigneron wrote in his letter to the group.  Proclaiming that changes such as the ordination of women must be made “in the spirit of Vatican II” are contrary to the Catholic faith, and Archbishop Vigneron rightly tried to put an end to their meeting in Detroit.  You can read his full letter on the Archdiocese of Detroit website.   
  2. Sister Elizabeth Johnson’s book is problematic because it promotes modalism.  The U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops’ position is explained in this article by the National Catholic Reporter. 
Let’s Sum It Up
  1. Sr. McBride automatically excommunicated herself by counseling the medical staff at St. Joseph Catholic Hospital to perform an abortion.
  2. Bishop Olmsted acted charitably in acting as messenger in bringing this to Sr. McBride’s attention.  
  3. Bishops who work to ensure that the faithful in their area are acting in accord to the laws of the church are not “power-obsessed”; they are exercising their office in the Church that Christ created.
I’ll tackle the rest of the issues tomorrow!
CBS News "The Catholic Church: A House Divided?" (Part 1)

CBS News "The Catholic Church: A House Divided?" (Part 1)

Last Sunday, the CBS News Sunday Morning show aired this “cover story” reported by Barry Petersen:  “The Catholic Church: A House Divided?”  To read the full article or watch the video, click here.   

Patrick Coffin, host of my favorite radio show Catholic Answers Live, is fond of talking about the low standards for journalists reporting on church news.  He likes to say, “If I don’t know what an RBI is, the New York Times is not going to let me write a baseball column for them.  But journalists who know nothing about Christianity are assigned to cover church news all the time.” 

The lack of fact-checking and one-sidedness of this particular story illustrates the sad reality of this truth.

Msgr. Charles Pope did a great job responding to this article in his blog, and I would like to build on his ideas.  There is so much to discuss from this 10-minute video and two-page article, that I’m tackling the issues separately and chronologically as they appear in the video and article. 

Here are the issues addressed in the report:
  1. The excommunication of Sr. Margaret Mary McBride, R.S.M. in the Diocese of Phoenix, Arizona.
  2. “Power-obsessed” Bishops
  3. Vatican II
  4. New Translation of the Roman Missal  
  5. Apostolic Visitation to Religious Orders
  6. Current status of St. Margaret Mary McBride and St. Joseph Catholic Hospital 
Today, I’m tackling numbers 1 and 2.
Issue 1:  Excommunication of Sr. Margaret Mary McBride, R.S.M. in the Diocese of Phoenix, Arizona

Sr. Margaret Mary McBride, R.S.M.
  • CBS Report Says:  Sr. Margaret Mary McBride helped to save a woman’s life and was excommunicated by a cruel, obsessed with control Bishop Olmsted.
  • Reality:  Sr. Margaret Mary McBride counseled the doctors of St. Joseph’s Catholic Hospital to perform a direct abortion and, consequently, excommunicated herself from the Catholic Church.  Bishop Olmsted informed her of this fact.
Examining the Catholic Moral Principles at Work in This Case
The case in question involved a female patient 11 weeks along in her pregnancy who suffered from severe pulmonary hypertension.  Fr. Tad Pacholczyk, Director of Education at the NCBC, is the author of a column called Making Sense out of Bioethics that appears in various diocesan newspapers across the country.   Fr. Tad addresses pregnancies complicated by pulmonary hypertension in his July 2010 article “Difficult Pregnancies, Precarious Choices, and the Absolute Value of Innocent Lives.”   Please take the time to read the brief article in its entirety.  Fr. Tad makes this statement that cuts to the core: “Better two deaths than the direct taking of an innocent life.”

When there is a complicated pregnancy, the medical staff must do everything in its power to save the mother and the baby.  

Recent advances in obstetrics and pre-natal medicine, along with so-called “expectant management” (close monitoring of a pregnancy with tailored interventions), have enabled an ever greater number of these high-risk pregnancies to be managed at least until the child reaches viability. Labor can then be induced or a C-section delivery can be scheduled. This ordinarily allows both mother and child to be saved. 

Fr. Tad concludes the article with this statement:

These challenging “life of the mother” cases allow us to begin acknowledging some of our own limitations, and the mystery of God’s greater Providence, in the realization that we may not be able to “manage” or “correct” every difficult medical situation we face.

Now, let’s connect the Catholic moral principles to this case:  Sr. Margaret Mary McBride was a member of the ethics committee at St. Joseph’s Catholic Hospital in Phoenix, Arizona that hears difficult medical cases and advises the medical staff how to proceed while also being faithful to Catholic Teaching.  Sr. McBride counseled the medical staff to perform a direct abortion.  As established above, the direct killing of a human being to save another is never morally permissible.  I’ll touch on her excommunication below.  

How the CBS Report Paints the Case
The reporter introduces Sr. McBride by the description of “a respected nun” and member of the hospital ethics committee.  After briefly explaining the patient’s medical condition, the reporter says, “Modern medicine presented two equally grim options: terminate the pregnancy and save the mother, or lose both mother
and child.”

The reporter interviews Dr. Charles Alfano, St. Joseph’s Chief Medical Officer.  Dr. Charles Alfano claims, “And as a result, we made the difficult decision, but the decision that we had to make, to terminate the pregnancy.”  Petersen glibly asks, “So, no matter what you guys had done, the child would have died?”  Dr. Charles Alfano responds, “Correct.”  This quick exchange excuses the direct killing of the baby because the doctors “had to” do it because child would have likely died had the staff decided to let the pregnancy run its course.    

The report goes on to say that the excommunication of Sr. McBride created a media frenzy, and the video shows a headline that reads, “Why does saving a life merit excommunication?”  Not surprisingly, the story got it wrong.  It was the abortion that caused Sr. McBride’s excommunication, not the consequential survival of the mother.

How Excommunication Works in the Context of Abortion
Canon 1398 states, “a person who procures a completed abortion incurs a latae sententiae (automatic) excommunication.”  So, anyone who performs, receives, encourages, or cooperates in any way with the abortion is automatically excommunicated from the moment the abortion is completed.  A person who is excommunicated must refrain from Holy Communion until after he or she has received absolution in the Sacrament of Confession and absolution from the excommunication.

Because Sr. McBride encouraged the abortion (the direct killing of the baby) as a member of the hospital ethics committee, she incurred a latae sententiae (automatic) excommunication.  Bishop Olmsted’s role was being the messenger in letting Sr. McBride know that she incurred this penalty as a result of her actions. 

What is the purpose of excommunication anyway?  The Catholic Encyclopedia explains it is a “medicinal penalty”:

Being a penalty, it supposes guilt; and being the most serious penalty that the Church can inflict, it naturally supposes a very grave offence. It is also a medicinal rather than a vindictive penalty, being intended, not so much to punish the culprit, as to correct him and bring him back to the path of righteousness. It necessarily, therefore, contemplates the future, either to prevent the recurrence of certain culpable acts that have grievous external consequences, or, more especially, to induce the delinquent to satisfy the obligations incurred by his offence.

Because we believe as Catholics that our actions have eternal consequences, we are in danger of eternal damnation should be die in a state of moral sin (i.e., procuring an abortion).  Since that’s the case, shouldn’t we Catholics be glad that Mother Church, through its ministers, does all that it can to (1) inform its members when they are out of communion, and (2) encourage them to repent of their actions to be back in full communion?      

Issue 2: “Power-Obsessed” Bishops
The report goes on to interview Father Thomas Doyle. 

Father Thomas Doyle, who specializes in church law and once worked for the Vatican’s Embassy in Washington, D.C., said, “The excommunication of the sister, I thought, was an extremely cruel act. I can’t describe it in any other way.”

Father Doyle is now an outspoken critic of the church, and says what happened in Phoenix points to an unfolding trend within the church.

“It tells me that within the hierarchy, there is a great deal of fear, that there is almost an obsession with control, that there’s an inability, I think, to deal with the 21st century.

“The bishop in Phoenix is not unique,” Father Doyle said. “There are many, many like him.”

A few points here:
  1. Sr. McBride automatically excommunicated herself by counseling the medical staff to perform an abortion.  Bishop Olmsted merely informed her of her status as an act of charity.
  2. “what happened in Phoenix points to an unfolding trend within the church.”  
    • The implied trend is that the bishops across the country are going rogue, trying to squash its members and excommunicate anyone who gets in their way.  Characterizing the bishops in this way causes further division and mistrust of the Church leadership.
    • Faithful Catholics should see the medicinal role of excommunication and pray that their bishops will continue to act charitably toward its members, helping them to rectify any actions that may have caused their excommunication. 
Directly following Father Thomas Doyle’s critique of the U.S. bishops, the story lists two examples of U.S. bishops exercising their authority against (1) the schismatic American Catholic Council who wants the Church to ordain women and (2) Sr. Elizabeth Johnson’s “Quest for the Living God” :

Take Archbishop Allen Vigneron in Detroit, who has spoken against the American Catholic Council, a group promoting change within the church, including the ordination of women.

Or the U.S. Conference of Bishops: They’ve critiqued and investigated the writings of Sister Elizabeth Johnson, a feminist theologian whose book “Quest for the Living God” has become popular among liberal Catholics.

A few points on these examples:
  1. The American Catholic Council is a schismatic group acting under the guise of “Church renewal.”  Church renewal is a beautiful thing to be embraced as Archbishop Allen Vigneron wrote in his letter to the group.  Proclaiming that changes such as the ordination of women must be made “in the spirit of Vatican II” are contrary to the Catholic faith, and Archbishop Vigneron rightly tried to put an end to their meeting in Detroit.  You can read his full letter on the Archdiocese of Detroit website.   
  2. Sister Elizabeth Johnson’s book is problematic because it promotes modalism.  The U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops’ position is explained in this article by the National Catholic Reporter. 
Let’s Sum It Up
  1. Sr. McBride automatically excommunicated herself by counseling the medical staff at St. Joseph Catholic Hospital to perform an abortion.
  2. Bishop Olmsted acted charitably in acting as messenger in bringing this to Sr. McBride’s attention.  
  3. Bishops who work to ensure that the faithful in their area are acting in accord to the laws of the church are not “power-obsessed”; they are exercising their office in the Church that Christ created.
I’ll tackle the rest of the issues tomorrow!
Did You Know Thursday is Mother’s Day?

Did You Know Thursday is Mother’s Day?

Ok, so maybe we don’t celebrate Mother’s Day on Thursday, December 8th in the United States, but I’m going to make the case that all Catholic families should.

In the Catholic Church, we celebrate the Immaculate Conception of the Blessed Virgin Mary on December 8.  The Immaculate Conception is a Holy Day of Obligation celebrating that Mary was free from the effects of Original Sin from the moment of her conception.  Pope Pius IX elevated December 8 as a Holy Day of Obligation in 1854 when he declared the doctrine of the Immaculate Conception.

It should come as no surprise that December 8, The Immaculate Conception, is also a national holiday and Mother’s Day (El Día de la Madre) in Panama.  Because it is a national holiday, families are free to attend Mass together in celebration of their spiritual mother, Mary, and come together to celebrate their earthly mothers as well.  Family members give moms a day off from her usual labors and honor her with a special meal that they prepare for her.  How cool is that?

Consider making December 8th Mother’s Day for your family.  (I’m sure the mothers in your life wouldn’t object to celebrating in May as well!)  Children and husbands, tell the mother in your life to take the day off from laundry, cooking, and cleaning.  Make her breakfast in bed.  Guys, if cooking isn’t your thing, go out to dinner as a family at her favorite restaurant.  Write her a card letting her know how important she is in your life.  Encourage all of her children to do the same.  Nothing beats a handmade card or gift from a child!

Don’t forget where you came from!  Write letters or give a call to Grandma and Great-Grandma as well.  Share stories of the matriarchs in the family. 

We must not forget to celebrate the other spiritual mothers in our lives.  These women are usually forgotten on Mother’s Day because they may not be physical mothers.  Perhaps there is a special consecrated religious, faith-filled neighbor, old teacher, or a great friend who, by her presence in your life, draws you into a closer relationship to God.  Thank her. 

On December 8th, we should give thanks to God for the gift of our spiritual mother, Mary.  We should pray that our earthly mothers (biological, adoptive, or spiritual) will magnify the greatness of the Lord for their families, local communities, and the world.  May all women come to live out the fullness of their vocation as physical and spiritual mothers.

The hour is coming, in fact has come, when the vocation of woman is being acknowledged in its fullness, the hour in which women acquire in the world an influence, an effect and a power never hitherto achieved.  That is why, at this moment when the human race is undergoing so deep a transformation, women impregnated with a spirit of the Gospel can do so much to aid humanity in not falling.*

* Taken from Closing Speeches, Vatican Council II, To Women, read by Leon Cardinal Duval of Algiers, Algeria, assisted by Julius Cardinal Doepfner of Munich, Germany, and Raul Cardinal Silva of Santiago, Chile, December 8, 1965, printed by the Daughters of St. Paul, Boston, Mass., 29.

      

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