Dorothy's Birthday (and my birth photography experience)
A few months away from my due date, I asked my photographer friend, Lisa, if she’d be interested in doing a newborn home photo shoot once Baby arrived. (Do yourself a favor and check out her beautiful website here.) She said she’d be happy to, so I told her my due date, and we said we’d follow up once Baby arrived.
Shortly thereafter, Lisa contacted me to see if I might also be interested in a “First 48 Hours” photo shoot of labor, delivery, and introducing Baby to the fam at the hospital. Ever since I saw blogger friend Kathryn Whitaker’s birth photographs, I knew I’d love to have a birth photographer, but I didn’t think I’d have the opportunity fall into my lap. So, when Lisa proposed a birth photography shoot for us, I immediately jumped at the chance! I promised to let her know when it was game time.
I had my 39-week check on Holy Thursday. I was experiencing a lot of Braxton Hicks and was at 3 cm, but things were relatively quiet until Good Friday evening. Things picked up and my contractions kept strengthening until we called Philip’s mom to come and stay with the kids Holy Saturday afternoon. My contractions were getting painful and remained 3 minutes apart for several hours. After a few hours of monitoring at the hospital, they released me, saying that I wasn’t advancing quickly enough. I have a track record for experiencing prodromal labor. (Having prodromal labor means that I contract for a long time before I transition into “active labor,” so I’m usually exhausted from days of sleepless nights with contractions by the time Baby decides it’s go time. It becomes an exhausting guessing game of, “Is this it or isn’t it?” An induction helps my body to transition into active labor more quickly than it would on its own.) I felt silly getting turned away from the hospital after having a few babies, but I wanted to make sure Baby was tolerating all of the contractions okay and that I wasn’t further along than I thought.
Our nurse suggested getting a bite to eat and power walking around the mall to see if that would get things going. After eating and walking at the mall for awhile, we decided it was time to head home to rest. Philip’s mom graciously stayed over Holy Saturday in case we had to go back in. Unfortunately, the contractions never ramped up, but we got to enjoy Easter Sunday at home with the kids. Fortunately, we had put together their Easter baskets and had stuffed eggs earlier in the week!
My OBGYN scheduled an induction for first thing Monday morning. I was still contracting at this point, but they weren’t terribly painful. After getting checked in and settled, I started poring over the 5 pages of prayer intentions that people had sent me. I had them all written down on a memo pad that I kept next to me in my hospital bed. As the pitocin ramped things up and it got harder to talk through the contractions, my loved ones’ prayer intentions kept me focused. The hospital where I delivered had a Catholic priest chaplain who brought me the Eucharist. What a comfort to receive Jesus as I labored!
I opted to get an epidural when I could no longer talk through the contractions. Perhaps someday I’ll go the, “I’ll offer the whole shebang up,” route if God blesses us with more babies, but I love my epidurals–especially with prodromal labor. A few hours after I got the epidural, I had advanced enough to the point that it was time to call Lisa.
By this time, I had pretty well memorized all of the prayer intentions, so I continued to pray them mentally throughout the rest of labor and delivery.
Munching on ice chips and debating on our boy name right up until it was time to start pushing.
Getting up on all fours to help Baby get here faster. It was entertaining to get into that position while I couldn’t feel the lower half of my body after the epidural!
Time to push! 1…2…3…
I love how this one captures Philip’s support by my side. We had a scary moment when Baby’s shoulders got stuck. The nurse had to climb up onto the bed to push on my stomach while my OBGYN moved Baby. Fortunately, it only took a few scary seconds.
Here Baby comes!
2:22 p.m. Baby’s here! Philip and I wait to find out our babies’ sex until they arrive. It’s our tradition to have Philip tell me whether Baby is a boy or a girl, so I was anxiously waiting to hear whether we had a new son or daughter.
After the final push, I heard Philip tell me, “It’s a girl!” Waterworks.
So happy
I kept saying, “We have another girl!”
Taking her in
“Hi!”
So mesmerized by her little face
Since Dorothy’s shoulders got stuck and she was so blue, the nurses took her over to the warmer to evaluate her. Philip was right by her side, telling me what was going on and assuring me that Dorothy was doing great. Having a pediatrician for a hubby comes in handy!
Big girl!
Back to me for some skin-to-skin
This picture so perfectly sums up what it’s like those first moments after Baby arrives. It felt as though there was no one else in the room except for me, Philip, and Dorothy.
I didn’t want to let go of Dorothy to dry my eyes, so Philip helped me out
Thanking my awesome doctor for safely delivering Dorothy
Basking in the afterglow
Time to eat
A relieved and happy smooch that Dorothy Jo had finally, safely arrived
A few hours later, the big kids came to the hospital to meet Dorothy.
Coming in…
Here’s your baby sister!
A little party in the hospital bed
Sisters
Shhh! She’s sleeping!
Sibling love
A big smooch from big brother
Our first family picture as a family of 6. Nevermind that it took some Twizzler’s to get this shot…
While Philip helped his parents to get the kiddos loaded up into the car, I had some quiet moments with Lisa to snap a few more pictures of Dorothy.
I am so, so, so happy we took Lisa up on her offer to photograph Dorothy’s birthday. The entire experience was beautiful, and Lisa captured it in a way we were never able to with our previous deliveries. Philip was able to be a part of the entire day as husband, birth coach, and father without feeling the pressure to also play photographer. Instead of just a small handful of images, I have nearly the entire day documented so that I can relive my favorite moments and think about the moments I otherwise would have forgotten. Emotions are so heightened during labor and delivery, and I was so focused on just getting Dorothy here safely, that a lot of the day had become a blur. As much as I love the labor and delivery photos, I equally love the sibling shots at the hospital. It was wonderful to just take in the experience instead of documenting it.
I knew Lisa would do a wonderful job since she has taken photos of our family multiple times, but these photos blew me away. I cannot recommend Lisa highly enough as a photographer, and I highly encourage other families to consider doing a “First 48 Hours” photo shoot with her. You won’t regret having these priceless moments captured forever. You can look at some of Lisa’s beautiful online portfolio and learn more about her work at L Guerra Photography.
