Put It To Work 9

Put It To Work 9

Put It To Work

Happy Monday!  That means it’s time to Put It To Work!  For those of you who are new to my blog, Put It To Work is my regular feature on Mondays.  Monday mornings can be chaotic & stressful.  I think that makes it a perfect time for us to swap prayer intentions with the promise of “putting them to work” for one another.

What’s that mean?

It means that we’ll actively unite any little suffering we might have during the week to the cross for the other person’s intention.

Here are my intentions for the week:

  • GodTeens:  Our parish assistant pastor is joining us for dinner and our GodTeens meeting afterward on Wednesday.  Our teens came up with questions to ask him that I sent ahead of time.  We’ll spend the evening in discussion.  Please pray that the time is fruitful, that the Holy Spirit speaks through our assistant pastor, and that the teens’ ears are opened to hearing whatever it is that God wants them to hear.
  • Marriage:  For a renewed commitment to our couple prayer time before bed.  Philip and I are trying to implement something different as we begin the new year.  Please pray for our success!
  • Kids:  For a smooth transition as we get back into the everyday preschool routine after Christmas vacation.
  • A personal intention.

Your turn!  What intentions can I start “putting to work” for you this week?  I will add them to my prayer journal and pray for you by name throughout the week.  Please share them in the comment box below, on the blog Facebook page, or send them to me via the “contact” button on the main menu bar.

Thank you in advance for your prayers!  Hope you’re having a blessed start to 2015!

Introducing My 2015 Board of Spiritual Directors

Introducing My 2015 Board of Spiritual Directors

Here is my 2015 Board of Spiritual Directors:

2015 Board of Spiritual Directors

2015 Board of Spiritual Directors

I completely stole the idea from Lisa Schmidt at The Practicing Catholic.  The idea is to choose holy men and women (saints and those on their way to sainthood) who simultaneously inspire, support, and challenge me on my own path toward sanctity.  I’m calling my board a “Board of Spiritual Directors.”  I’m actually in the process of finding my own, real-life spiritual director.

What’s a spiritual director, you ask?  Very simply, a spiritual director is like a spiritual coach who encourages me along in my goal of sanctity.  Spiritual directors are usually priests or religious sisters trained to help the faithful attain Christian perfection.  (In other words, they help us to rid ourselves of vices and cultivate virtues.)  My ultimate dream would be finding a good and holy priest who could serve as my confessor and my spiritual director.  Until I find my spiritual director,  my goal is to learn from the lives of the holy men and women on my personal Board of Spiritual Directors.

I prayed about my selections for a few months, and I settled on 6.  I didn’t realize it until this moment, but I ended up with 3 men and 3 women!  My goal is to spend 2 months of 2015 with each holy man or woman.  I will be reading their biographies, memoirs, and inspiring devotionals.

Let me briefly introduce you to them.  (I had way too much fun editing their pictures for this post!)

1.  Servant of God Elisabeth Leseur

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Thanks to Well-Read Mom, I have had an excuse to read The Secret Diary of Elisabeth Leseur: The Woman Whose Goodness Changed Her Husband From Atheist to Priest this past month.  The volume I’m reading contains Elisabeth’s spiritual writings as well as her diary.  She is such a beautiful witness to all Christian women.  She persevered in prayer for the soul of her atheist (and often antagonistic) husband, Felix.  At the time of her premature death, Felix was still an unbeliever.  Then, he discovered her writings, and his whole life changed.  Ultimately, he became a Catholic priest, and he dedicated the rest of his life on earth sharing Elisabeth’s writings and his own love of God.  Elisabeth Leseur is a Servant of God

2.  St. Monica (Mother of St. Augustine)

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I would have been a terrible St. Monica!  I don’t think I could have endured her husband or mother-in-law like she did.  She is a beautiful model (like Servant of God Elisabeth Leseur) of the power of quiet, persistent prayer for your loved ones.  Her spiritual training with her husband and mother-in-law served her well as she raised her oldest child, St. Augustine.  Augustine is the saint who always makes me think of the quote, “Every saint has a past, every sinner has a future.”  St. Augustine had QUITE the past, and St. Monica patiently, faithfully loved him through it.  Because of her loving prayers, Augustine went on to become one of the most well-known and celebrated saints in the Church.

3.  Blessed Mother Teresa

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We all know the images of Blessed Mother Teresa tending to the people in the streets of Calcutta.  No one knew beneath that loving smile that Mother Teresa was suffering from a “dark night of the soul” for much of her ministry.  Colleen Carroll Campbell wrote about Mother Teresa’s spiritual struggles in her book, My Sisters the Saints: A Spiritual Memoir.  I was so encouraged to hear that Mother Teresa’s prayer life was not always full of consolation and those warm fuzzy feelings.  I look forward to reading more about how Mother Teresa taught herself to persevere in faith–especially in the midst of her dark night of the soul.  (Mother Teresa’s order, The Missionaries of Charity, has a Rule that was the inspiration behind Holly Pierlot’s A Mother’s Rule of Life.  If you’ve read my blog, you know that I created our own Family Rule of Life last Lent, and I am re-visiting it for the New Year.  Stay tuned!)

4.  St. Padre Pio

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I chose St. Padre Pio for his ultimate witness to the power of redemptive suffering.  At his canonization Mass, Pope St. John Paul II said that St. Padre Pio’s sufferings as a stigmatist can be a “privileged path of sanctity.”  He is famous for spending long days (up to 10 hours!) hearing confessions–often asking the penitent about specific sins before they were confessed!  I look forward to reading more about St. Padre Pio’s life and steadfast devotion to carrying Christ’s yoke faithfully upon his shoulders.

5.  St. Francis de Sales

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I am so excited to read St. Francis de Sales’ famous The Introduction to the Devout Life and (hopefully!) more of his writings this year.  I am inspired by his writings that encourage all of us on the path to sainthood.

“It is an error, or rather a heresy, to say devotion is incompatible with the life of a soldier, a tradesman, a prince, or a married woman…. It has happened that many have lost perfection in the desert who had preserved it in the world. ”

As a writer, I’m encouraged and emboldened by St. Francis’ example to use my writings at His service.  I pray that St. Francis will further embolden me to write whatever it is that God asks of me, always remembering his axiom that, “A spoonful of honey attracts more flies than a barrelful of vinegar.”

6.  Venerable Archbishop Fulton Sheen

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Archbishop Fulton Sheen is THE MAN!  He’s the namesake for our own little Harold FULTON Boucher.  He became a household name in the 1960s for his television show, The Fulton Sheen Program.  In fact, he won 2 Emmys for Most Outstanding Television Personality!  I had to include the “JMJ” (Jesus, Mary, and Joseph) at the top of his picture to pay homage to his handwritten letters at the top of his blackboard on all of his programs.

I chose Archbishop Sheen for my Board of Spiritual Directors because he is inspiring as a modern evangelist.  I hope, like him, that my blog will find the balance of being in the world but not of the world.  Like Archbishop Sheen, I want people to find the way our family lives the faith attractive.  I hope that through reading more of his writings, I will learn how to better balance reaching the world while not being consumed by it.

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2 questions for you:

  1. Who would be on your 2015 Board of Spiritual Directors?
  2. Do you have any books/resources about these holy men and women that you recommend I get my hands on this year?

Please share your answers in the comments below!

7QT: What we were up to during my blogging hiatus

7QT: What we were up to during my blogging hiatus

In early December, I decided to take a little blogging/Facebook hiatus for Advent and the beginning of the Christmas season.  I thought I’d dedicate my first 7QT post of 2015 to what we were up to this past month.  Mostly, it’s going to be a crazy photo dump that I’m going to manipulate into 7 loose categories.  I haven’t uploaded the pictures from our “real” (fancy schmancy) camera, so we’re just going to have to settle for grainy cell phone pics.  I’ll get my act together as a real blogger someday!

 

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We had fun getting ready for Christmas!

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Harry decided to become one with the packaging from the Nativity scene

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You haven’t lived if you’ve never tried getting that staticky stuff off of a squirming 16-month-old!

That silly Elf Bernie showed up for more shenanigans this Advent

That silly Elf Bernie showed up for more shenanigans this Advent

He left with a flourish this year!

He left with a flourish this year!

 

St. Nick remembered to visit the morning after Mama played Bunco late on Friday, December 5th.  What a guy!

St. Nick remembered to visit the morning after Mama played Bunco late on Friday, December 5th. What a guy!

The kids loved our time around the Advent wreath after dinner.

The kids loved our time around the Advent wreath after dinner.

There's something magical about singing "O come, O come, Emmanuel" by candlelight with your family.

There’s something magical about singing “O come, O come, Emmanuel” by candlelight with your family.

 We even got to have an unexpected, romantic candlelit dinner (thanks, Advent wreath!) one night when the power went out just as we were setting the table!

We even got to have an unexpected, romantic candlelit dinner (thanks, Advent wreath!) one night when the power went out just as we were setting the table!

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Harry decided that Monty was the most comfy seat in the house

Harry decided that Monty was the most comfy seat in the house

Monty isn't so sure about  Harry's new-found fondness for him

Monty isn’t so sure about Harry’s new-found fondness for him

It looks like Monty's saying, "Alright, Mom.  It was cute the first time, but this is getting old!"

It looks like Monty’s saying, “Alright, Mom. It was cute the first time, but this is getting old!”

Harry also started making the most terrible stink eye face you've ever seen!

Harry also started making the most terrible stink eye face you’ve ever seen!  Stink eye selfie!

 

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We had a Christmas party with our GodTeens.  One of the guys brought "Ninja-Bread Cookies."  Aren't they awesome?!

We had a Christmas party with our GodTeens. One of the guys brought “Ninja-Bread Cookies.” Aren’t they awesome?!

Jane and Walt loved 'em!  "KA-CHOW!"

Jane and Walt loved ’em! “KA-CHOW!”

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There was a whole lotta “holy leisure” while the kids had time off from preschool.

Brothers watching movies in jammies

Brothers watching movies in jammies

"Special Day" with Walt.  Lunch at Runza (who doesn't need a bowl of ice cream with a shake after a burger and fries?!) and a trip to Barnes & Noble

“Special Day” with Walt. Lunch at Runza (who doesn’t need a bowl of ice cream with a shake after a burger and fries?!) and a trip to Barnes & Noble

Dr. Walt giving Jane a check-up with Daddy's otoscope

Dr. Walt giving Jane a check-up with Daddy’s otoscope

Cheers!  Hot chocolate in sippy cups while we looked at Christmas lights in the car

Cheers! Hot chocolate in sippy cups while we looked at Christmas lights in the car

Baking boys

Baking boys

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We had fun with the Bouchers on Christmas Eve

Jane got her very own Lambie pillow!

Jane got her very own Lambie pillow!

Walt and silly Olaf wearing Papa's glasses

Walt and silly Olaf wearing Papa’s glasses

Blue sweater boys

Blue sweater boys

Our best attempt at a family pic

Our best attempt at a family pic

Got the whole group in a shot using Maddy's selfie stick!

Got the whole group in a shot using Maddy’s selfie stick!

Jane has been sleeping with her cuddly Lambie pillow and little Lambie ever since

Jane has been sleeping with her cuddly Lambie pillow and little Lambie ever since

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And we had a quiet Christmas morning with our little family

Opening stockings.  Walt got Despicable Me 2.  His entire Christmas vacation has revolved around Gru and his minions.

Opening stockings. Walt got Despicable Me 2. His entire Christmas vacation has revolved around Gru and his minions.

Monty got a new leash and collar

Monty got a new leash and collar

We put on Despicable Me 2 while getting everyone ready for Mass.  Harry was ENTHRALLED!

We put on Despicable Me 2 while getting everyone ready for Mass. Harry was ENTHRALLED!

A kinda sorta okay group pic in front of our parish Nativity scene.  (Yes, that's a minion in a Santa hat that Walt is holding.  It came with his movie, and he had to bring it to celebrate Jesus' birthday.)

A kinda sorta okay group pic in front of our parish Nativity scene. (Yes, that’s a minion in a Santa hat that Walt is holding. It came with his movie, and he had to bring it to celebrate Jesus’ birthday.)  Note to self: From this year on, we will ALWAYS go to Mass on Christmas Day morning.  It was so much more peaceful than the chaos of the Christmas Eve mob.

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And we finished out the fanfare with a Christmas evening celebration with the Witts.

Silly selfie with Daddy

Silly selfie with Daddy

Mom & Dad in front of da bear

Mom & Dad in front of da bear

Harry, for one, thinks Grandpa has the best stuffed animals around!

Harry, for one, thinks Grandpa has the best stuffed animals around!

Waiting for Santa's big appearance

Waiting for Santa’s annual big appearance

We got to celebrate Grandma and Grandpa's 65th wedding anniversary a few nights later.  65 YEARS!!!  I took a pic of them sharing stories from their early years.  What a fun night!

We got to celebrate Grandma and Grandpa’s 65th wedding anniversary a few nights later. 65 YEARS!!! I took a pic of them sharing stories from their early years. What a fun night!

The guys

The Guys

The Girls

The Girls

Off to enjoy these last few days of Christmas vacation with the fam!  To read more 7QT posts from other bloggers, head over to Kelly Mantoan’s blog, This Ain’t The Lyceum!

See You in 2015!

See You in 2015!

I’ve decided it’s time to say “yes” by saying “no.”  I’m getting off Facebook for the rest of December, and I’m taking a hiatus from blogging, too.  
 
It’s time to be still.  
 
It’s time to prepare my heart, our family, and our home to welcome the Christ Child.  
 
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I want this Advent to be a holy one.  So, this month, instead of coming up with new blog posts or wasting time on Facebook, I’ll be *trying* to imitate John the Baptist.
 
“He must increase, but I must decrease.”  (John 3:30)  
 
To that end, I have a few goals:
  • Finalize my 2015 Board of Spiritual Directors.  (Thanks for the inspiration, Lisa!)
  • Continue to start the day before the children wake up in quiet prayer.  It’s a game changer!
  • Since Advent is the start of a new liturgical year, it feels like the perfect time to create new resolutions.  During the rest of Advent, I’ll be re-reading A Mother’s Rule of Life and revisiting/revising the 5 P’s I came up with last Lent.  Our home, our family, and our hearts have changed since then.  It’s time to make some updates!  In case you don’t remember, the 5 P’s are:
    1. Prayer
    2. Person
    3. Partner
    4. Parent
    5. Provider
I will be making baby steps to start implementing my new resolutions, and I’ll share ’em with you once I’m back in 2015.  Until then, I pray that you and your family have a blessed Advent and a Merry Christmas!  Please continue to send your prayer intentions while I am away!
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Put It To Work

Happy Monday!  It’s time for Put It To Work, our weekly opportunity to swap prayer intentions.  The goal of Put It To Work is to actively unite our intentions to the cross for one another, putting the prayer intentions “to work”–especially in times of suffering (no matter how small).    
Please put these intentions to work this week:
  • For my friend, Geoff, as he mourns the death of his father who passed away suddenly over the Thanksgiving weekend
  • For a prayerful, peaceful, and holy Advent season for our family
  • For forgiveness and healing within families–especially as Christmas approaches
  • For the repose of the soul of my uncle.  We are approaching the 6-year anniversary of the day he took his life, and he has been on my mind a lot lately
  • For my patience on the home front 
  • That Philip and I will continue to work everyday to further strengthen our marriage
What about you?  What prayer intentions can I start “putting to work” for you this week?  I’ll add them to my prayer journal and bring them with me to my prayer time throughout the week.

 Thank you for praying for us!  You’re in my prayers this week, too!
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Put It To Work 7

Put It To Work

Happy Monday!  It’s time for Put It To Work, our weekly opportunity to swap prayer intentions.  The goal of Put It To Work is to actively unite our intentions to the cross for one another, putting the prayer intentions “to work”–especially in times of suffering (no matter how small).  

Thank you for your prayers last week.  Hosting my side for an early Thanksgiving on Saturday went great!  Philip and I didn’t have a single fight in preparation for the festivities!  The inevitable snafus arose, but we were able to take them in stride.  I’ll post about Thanksgiving later. 
Please put these intentions to work this week:
  • That our family works to find new, concrete ways to live out Sunday’s Gospel this year (serving the least of our brothers)
  • For Grandma Josephine.  May she adjust well to her new home, receive loving care, and find peace as her Alzheimer’s advances.
  • For the people of Ferguson, Missouri as they live through whatever verdict may come.  For their safety and healing.
  • For my patience as I learn how to coach Jane and Walt through the preschool years
  • That Philip and I will continue to work everyday to further strengthen our marriage
What about you?  What prayer intentions can I start “putting to work” for you this week?  I’ll add them to my prayer journal and bring them with me to my prayer time throughout the week.

 Thank you for praying for us!  You’re in my prayers this week, too!

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