by Catherine | Jun 16, 2014 | Family, The Homefront
Thought I’d share a few pictures of what we’ve been up to since the big move.
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| Playing on the parish playground. Did I mention our new parish is a leisurely five minute stroll from our home? GLORIOUS! |
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| Walt, our Very Hungry Caterpillar at the Lincoln Zoo |
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| Another beautiful evening at the parish playground |
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| Grilling Master on Father’s Day |
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| Helping “Papa” with his Father’s Day presents |
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| Crazy hair and an ice cream mustache |
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| Philip loves to have Harry play peek-a-boo around the corner. “Hi, Mom! Whatcha doin’?” |
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| Running around the backyard. I could go on and on and on about how much I looooooooove having a real backyard. Monty loves his new-found freedom! |
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| All ready for ballet class at the local gym |
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| Harry, hanging at the Lincoln zoo |
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| First pony ride at the Lincoln zoo |
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| A regular shopping adventure “at our new Lincoln Target” (as the kids call it) |
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| We eat outside as much as possible because it’s so much fun! |
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| Posing with Grandma Sally during a visit from the Omaha grandparents (Grandma Sally, Grandpa Dan, Great Grandma Connie, and Great Grandpa Mel). I’m still kicking myself for not getting a group photo. |
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| Jane and I got to attend Aunt Maddy’s dance recital. She did such a great job! Beautiful job on the bun, Janet! |
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| Philip has been busy organizing the garage. I’ll share more pictures when he’s done. Way to go, honey! |
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| My loves on Father’s Day |
It’s been a fun, wild ride! In just a few more weeks, Philip will be done commuting to Omaha, and he’ll officially be done with residency. FOR-EV-ER! YAHOO! In the meantime, we’re getting into a rhythm at the house. Most days consist of going to the new gym, storytime, housework/errands, visits to our new favorite spots (zoo, library, parks), and play dates with our Lincoln buddies. It’s been a great summer so far, and we’re looking forward to more fun times in the months to come!
by Catherine | Jun 11, 2014 | Marriage
6 years ago today, Philip and I were on our honeymoon in Rome. What a way to start a marriage, huh? Not only were we in Rome, but we were getting our marriage blessed by Pope Benedict XVI at a Wednesday audience in St. Peter’s Square. (I wrote another post about the day we received our papal blessing here.)





As we were seated for the papal blessing, we realized our Newman Center friends, Tim and Sara, were seated right next to us! Without knowing it, we had all decided to honeymoon in Rome at the same time and receive a papal blessing. 6 years later, we’re living in the same city, and Sara and I are in the same Catholic women’s Bible study.
I love looking back at the photos from our honeymoon, especially from the day of our papal blessing. I know our marriage was strengthened by the graces we received that day. How cool is it that we got to spend some of the first days of our new life together in Rome?! Oh, to be able to go back…and eat lots and lots of gelato.
Today, 6 years after our papal blessing, things are equally as adventurous and romantic! There is rarely a dull moment with our three little musketeers.
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| Today’s AM trip to Target |
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| My lunch dates |
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| Monty wanted to be in the shot |
It’s funny thinking about how much has changed since our honeymoon. Here are a few of our favorite pictures from the rest of the trip:
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| I wish I could tell you where they were from and where they were going, but those caged chickens were getting a papal blessing, too! |
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| In the Colosseum |
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| Making authentic Italian pizza in one of our favorite restaurants from the trip |
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| Trevi Fountain |
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| Another delicious dinner |
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| Selfie in front of the statue of Bruno |
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| I loved the Swiss Guards’s uniforms |
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| From our private tour of the Vatican Museum after hours. Let me tell ya…going through there with only a dozen people is an experience I won’t soon forget! |
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| This Sacred Heart School girl had to pay a visit to Mater |
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| We had to snap a picture of these Pope John Paul II suckers (now they would be saint suckers!) |
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| My hunk of a husband in front of the Colosseum |
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| St. Peter’s after our tour of the Vatican Museum |
When we were strolling around Rome hand-in-hand, Philip and I talked about the family we wanted to have. God blessed us big time with our beautiful kiddos, and our days are anything but ordinary! Life might not be as glamorous as nighttime strolls in Rome, but I’d pick our new life any day. Philip’s residency is *nearly* over, so it feels like our life as a normal family is just beginning. With a new city, a new house, and Philip’s new job, it’s like a second honeymoon. Who knows what the next 6 years will bring! God has taught us one thing: keep Him at the center of our marriage, and He will not be outdone in generosity.
by Catherine | Jun 9, 2014 | The Homefront
Below is a picture of our new family room. Can you find what’s missing?

It’s actually a trick question because we don’t think the room is missing anything. I was hoping you’d notice that the family room doesn’t have a television. Did you? We’re not finished decorating or putting in the finishing touches, but we are so, so, so, so thrilled with our decision not to put a television in the family room.
When we first saw the house, we considered putting a television above the mantle, but I cringed at the idea of making a television the focal point of the room. I didn’t want to put a TV up on the wall behind the chairs either. So, no television in the family room!
We have one television in the entire house, and it’s in the basement. That TV has the basic channels (CBS, NBC, ABC, PBS, and FOX), and we have an Apple TV, so we use that to stream shows & movies from Netflix and HuluPlus.
It’s amazing how the geography of the television has affected how much we watch. Since the only television in the house is in the basement, we have to be much more deliberate in choosing to watch something. We no longer have it on as background noise or as a tool to help the kids transition to or from nap/bedtime. Instead, TV time is a special treat and reward. When the TV is on, we’re actually watching together and talking about what we’re seeing. TV watching is back to being an event to look forward to and enjoy together.
I love the transformation not having a television on the main floor (or upstairs) has had on the kids. They are outside as much as possible when the weather cooperates, they’re using their imaginations to come up with fun games, they explore and play in every room of the house, their listening skills are sharper, they’re more engaged with whatever activities they’re doing, I’ve noticed a jump in their language skills, and (perhaps my favorite benefit) they have been sleeping soooooooooo well because they are much busier.
As for Philip and I, we are more productive, we have better conversations, we don’t rely on the television to fill our evenings, we’re reading more, we’re getting to bed earlier, and we’re waking up earlier. Even though Philip is still commuting back to Omaha this month as he finishes up residency, he’s waking up early enough to go to our new gym and workout before heading in to work. I’m using that extra time in the morning to have quiet prayer time, make everyone breakfast, and get the crew out the door so that I can get my own workout in. It’s been a little slice of heaven!
The only drawback we’re anticipating is a potential riot from friends and family when it sinks in that we don’t have a TV on the main level during Husker football season. If it’s a home game, now we can just head downtown to watch the whole thing live!
Until then, we are loving all of the positive changes.
What’s the TV situation like at your house? What about when you were growing up? Did you have a TV in your bedroom? What kinds of rules or limits do you have with screen time at your house (if any)?
by Catherine | Jun 9, 2014 | The Homefront
Below is a picture of our new family room. Can you find what’s missing?

It’s actually a trick question because we don’t think the room is missing anything. I was hoping you’d notice that the family room doesn’t have a television. Did you? We’re not finished decorating or putting in the finishing touches, but we are so, so, so, so thrilled with our decision not to put a television in the family room.
When we first saw the house, we considered putting a television above the mantle, but I cringed at the idea of making a television the focal point of the room. I didn’t want to put a TV up on the wall behind the chairs either. So, no television in the family room!
We have one television in the entire house, and it’s in the basement. That TV has the basic channels (CBS, NBC, ABC, PBS, and FOX), and we have an Apple TV, so we use that to stream shows & movies from Netflix and HuluPlus.
It’s amazing how the geography of the television has affected how much we watch. Since the only television in the house is in the basement, we have to be much more deliberate in choosing to watch something. We no longer have it on as background noise or as a tool to help the kids transition to or from nap/bedtime. Instead, TV time is a special treat and reward. When the TV is on, we’re actually watching together and talking about what we’re seeing. TV watching is back to being an event to look forward to and enjoy together.
I love the transformation not having a television on the main floor (or upstairs) has had on the kids. They are outside as much as possible when the weather cooperates, they’re using their imaginations to come up with fun games, they explore and play in every room of the house, their listening skills are sharper, they’re more engaged with whatever activities they’re doing, I’ve noticed a jump in their language skills, and (perhaps my favorite benefit) they have been sleeping soooooooooo well because they are much busier.
As for Philip and I, we are more productive, we have better conversations, we don’t rely on the television to fill our evenings, we’re reading more, we’re getting to bed earlier, and we’re waking up earlier. Even though Philip is still commuting back to Omaha this month as he finishes up residency, he’s waking up early enough to go to our new gym and workout before heading in to work. I’m using that extra time in the morning to have quiet prayer time, make everyone breakfast, and get the crew out the door so that I can get my own workout in. It’s been a little slice of heaven!
The only drawback we’re anticipating is a potential riot from friends and family when it sinks in that we don’t have a TV on the main level during Husker football season. If it’s a home game, now we can just head downtown to watch the whole thing live!
Until then, we are loving all of the positive changes.
What’s the TV situation like at your house? What about when you were growing up? Did you have a TV in your bedroom? What kinds of rules or limits do you have with screen time at your house (if any)?
by Catherine | Jun 5, 2014 | Faith, The Homefront
I’ve been inspired by this summer book club, “Summer in the Little Oratory,” to create our own “little oratory.” An oratory is just a fancy word for a dedicated prayer space. As my friend Lisa Schmidt says, it’s all about “bringing the monastic into my domestic.” (If you haven’t checked out the book club yet, you should! Lisa Schmidt gives a great intro and summary of what the group is all about here. There are weekly posts dedicated to each chapter of the book, and there is an accompanying podcast as well. The book is The Little Oratory: A Beginner’s Guide to Praying at Home.)
The good news is I stumbled upon the book club series for the little oratory at a perfect time–just after we moved into a new home. The bad news is I’m, well, shall we say….decorating challenged.
This is my plea to get some decorating advice for my little oratory from all of you. I’ve found what I think is the perfect space for our little oratory, but I’m not sure what to do with it. We have a small hallway from our front door that leads into the family room/kitchen. The space I have in mind is in direct eyesight from the front door. It’s directly behind the family room loveseat in a little nook that backs up to a wall separating the family room from the kitchen informal dining area.
Here’s the angle from the hallway.
Since we already have so much furniture for seating in the family room, I don’t want to add another chair. I want our little oratory to be a place to store our Bibles, the Catechism, lives of the saints, studies/devotionals, rosaries, holy water, other reference books. I’m envisioning beautiful artwork including icons of Jesus, the Blessed Mother, our family’s favorite intercessors.
Here’s another angle of the space:
I went to a lot of trouble to create a “circle time” bulletin board earlier this year. I’m on the fence as to whether or not I’d include it on the little wall backing up to the kitchen, or if I should just leave it in the playroom downstairs…It’s very classroom-y and not very aesthetically pleasing, so I hesitate to put it up on the wall.

Buuuuuuuut the kids would love to have that easy access to it, and it’d be nice to sit on the ground with them after breakfast and start our day off together in front of our religious artwork. Maybe I could just prop it against the wall? I’d love for the kids to be able to see everything that’s on that board on a more regular basis than they would in the basement playroom. It has a Happy Saints liturgical calendar, our daily prayers (Morning Offering, Angelus, and prayer to St. Joseph), the days of the week with an attached devotion to each, the mysteries of the Rosary for that day, and our special prayer intentions as well as our extended family “person of the week” that we’re praying for.
I know, I know….it’s our space, and we should just do what we want with it, but I want it to be pretty! I want it to be my little visual retreat every time I glance at it or come over to get my prayer materials. Maybe I should just put it on the wall and remember that I don’t have to look at it from the kitchen!
Let me share a few pictures of the family room so that you get an idea of what the surrounding space looks like:
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| From the kitchen |
The previous owners sold us their kitchen table & chairs and the family room sofa, loveseat, and two chairs. Yay for inexpensively furnishing our home! Kindly pretend that: our built-ins are perfectly accessorized, this shorty bothered to pull out the ladder to put stuff on the top shelves, and that I have the right art up on the walls.
Now that you have a sense of what the rest of the space looks like, how would you go about filling the oratory?
For this wall, I was thinking
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- Framed artwork and crucifix on the wall
- Short, wide bookcase
- Use top of bookcase for smaller artwork, statues, flowers, candles/candlesticks
- Use shelves to store our Bibles, the Catechism, lives of the saints, studies/devotionals, rosaries, holy water, other reference books
What do I do about this wall?
I don’t want to add additional seating. Is the circle time board really crazy ugly to hang here? Be brutally honest, please. Really. Just tell me. Do I need to just leave it blank? Share your brilliance! I’ve been spending my prayer time in the family room on the couch or at the kitchen table, so I guess I’m treating this area as a storage space & visual retreat. Maybe I should add something to make the area more enticing for the kids to stay there like some little baskets that they can easily get their books and sacramentals from. I have some space next to that end table (or even the bottom shelf of that end table) where I can put a little bean bag and some bins. What about those cute little cube seats with the removable lids for storage?
I love, love, love this prayer space that a teacher in a Catholic school created for her kindergarteners.

Maybe that’s what this wall needs to become–the elementary-themed oratory space with the circle time board, a cute framed “let the children come to me,” and bins for their stuff.
I’d adore any and all feedback you have! Help a decorating challenged girl out.
By the way, I created a “Little Oratory” board on Pinterest to help me gather my favorite pictures of other oratories and some artwork I’d love to have in our space.