I'm Baaaaaaaaaaack!

I'm Baaaaaaaaaaack!

At the end of July, I decided it was time to take a step back from blogging for 3 months.

TAKING A BREAKThe break was very fruitful and exactly what I needed.  Thank you for all of your prayers while I was away!

In case you missed the exciting news, I am thrilled to officially share on my blog that I am pregnant and due March 31, so that puts me at 18.5 weeks.  We’re almost halfway there!  Yay!  Unfortunately, I’ve been battling some pretty significant “morning” sickness this pregnancy, so we’ve been in survival mode around these parts, and I wouldn’t have been blogging much even without my announced break.

In addition to growing this baby that we’re so excited to meet, I’ve been keeping busy doing the wife & stay-at-home mom thing and taking care of the home front.  Beyond that, I’ve spent other time starting a new women’s group at the parish, dedicating more time to planning our GodTeens meetings, and strengthening my real life relationships with regular play dates and girl time.

I honestly didn’t spend a whole lotta time discerning what to do with this blog until the last few weeks.  It was easier for me to put it out of my sight and out of my mind.  As the end of my 3-month hiatus approached, I have had more and more people contacting me, asking me to return or suggesting various topics that they’d like me to write about.  After thinking about it long and hard and asking God what He thinks about all of this, a few thoughts:

  • I’ve missed blogging, but I haven’t missed feeling tethered to it.
  • I’ll be writing less frequently, but (hopefully) make up for the infrequency with more focused, passionate writing.
  • Realizing that I can walk away from blogging at any time for any reason brings me peace.
  • Conversely, realizing that my homecoming can be whatever I want it to be brings me peace.  “It’s my blog, and I’ll blog whenever and however I want to!”
  • God has used this blog for a lot of good, and so long as He’s able to keep using it to bless others, I’ll keep writing.  Thank you to the readers who took the time to reach out and remind me that this blog has somehow been a helpful ministry.
  • I think I’ll be a better blogger after my little break because I know I’ve been living (or trying to live) exactly The Life I Need to become the person I’m supposed to be.  God has done big things for me and my family during my three months away, and I see now how I can better use this little space to glorify Him.  As soon as this blog stops doing that, well, then, in the words of Flannery O’Connor, “to hell with it!”

I look forward to getting back to The Life I Need, and I hope I’ll be seeing a lot of you in the comments and the blog Facebook page.

St. Thérèse, pray for us!

I’m Baaaaaaaaaaack!

I’m Baaaaaaaaaaack!

At the end of July, I decided it was time to take a step back from blogging for 3 months.

TAKING A BREAKThe break was very fruitful and exactly what I needed.  Thank you for all of your prayers while I was away!

In case you missed the exciting news, I am thrilled to officially share on my blog that I am pregnant and due March 31, so that puts me at 18.5 weeks.  We’re almost halfway there!  Yay!  Unfortunately, I’ve been battling some pretty significant “morning” sickness this pregnancy, so we’ve been in survival mode around these parts, and I wouldn’t have been blogging much even without my announced break.

In addition to growing this baby that we’re so excited to meet, I’ve been keeping busy doing the wife & stay-at-home mom thing and taking care of the home front.  Beyond that, I’ve spent other time starting a new women’s group at the parish, dedicating more time to planning our GodTeens meetings, and strengthening my real life relationships with regular play dates and girl time.

I honestly didn’t spend a whole lotta time discerning what to do with this blog until the last few weeks.  It was easier for me to put it out of my sight and out of my mind.  As the end of my 3-month hiatus approached, I have had more and more people contacting me, asking me to return or suggesting various topics that they’d like me to write about.  After thinking about it long and hard and asking God what He thinks about all of this, a few thoughts:

  • I’ve missed blogging, but I haven’t missed feeling tethered to it.
  • I’ll be writing less frequently, but (hopefully) make up for the infrequency with more focused, passionate writing.
  • Realizing that I can walk away from blogging at any time for any reason brings me peace.
  • Conversely, realizing that my homecoming can be whatever I want it to be brings me peace.  “It’s my blog, and I’ll blog whenever and however I want to!”
  • God has used this blog for a lot of good, and so long as He’s able to keep using it to bless others, I’ll keep writing.  Thank you to the readers who took the time to reach out and remind me that this blog has somehow been a helpful ministry.
  • I think I’ll be a better blogger after my little break because I know I’ve been living (or trying to live) exactly The Life I Need to become the person I’m supposed to be.  God has done big things for me and my family during my three months away, and I see now how I can better use this little space to glorify Him.  As soon as this blog stops doing that, well, then, in the words of Flannery O’Connor, “to hell with it!”

I look forward to getting back to The Life I Need, and I hope I’ll be seeing a lot of you in the comments and the blog Facebook page.

St. Thérèse, pray for us!

Taking A Break

Taking A Break

TAKING A BREAKI’ve had this nagging feeling for a few months that the blog is getting in the way.  It’s taking up a lot of mental energy and free time.  While my readership has grown, the feel of an online community has not.  It has felt selfish to pour out so much of myself into this little online space when I’m feeling tugged elsewhere.  I’m starting to see how the tugging I have felt has been the Holy Spirit.

Recently, I have been asked to participate in a few ministries within my parish.  These invitations have been the perfect opportunities for me to give an enthusiastic, “YES!”  The more time I invest in these ministries, the more I see how God has a bigger plan for me that may or may not include The Life I Need.

So, I’m going to take a 3-month break from blogging.  I’m going to make a clean break to make the discernment process easier.  Come All Saints Day (November 1), maybe I’ll come back sporadically.  Or (gasp!) maybe I’ll hang up my blogging hat altogether.  Maybe I’ll realize that I need to continue writing but focus my efforts elsewhere.  Who knows!

In the meantime, the blog Facebook page will be inactive.  If you’d like to see pictures of what we’re up to or read little updates, I’ll be posting to my personal Facebook and Instagram pages.  I hope I’ll see you there.  Even better, let’s meet up for coffee or dessert!

Put It To Work 37

Put It To Work 37

Put It To Work

Another week means another opportunity to swap prayer intentions and start “putting them to work” for one another!  (Are you new to the blog and aren’t sure what this series is all about?  I explain what “put it to work” means in this post.)

Here are my prayer intentions for this week:

  • For Philip’s parents as they celebrate their wedding anniversary this week.  That God may continue to bless their marriage!
  • Continued prayers for Harry.  At 23 months, he hasn’t been producing words.  Our pediatrician referred us for a hearing test through the local special education office to rule hearing loss out.  Unfortunately, Harry failed the hearing test and we are having a follow-up with an ENT.  Although the hearing test was done with a relatively unsophisticated machine that over refers patients, I’m concerned about the possibility that Harry might have significant hearing loss.  Please keep Harry and the ENT in your prayers as we sort things out in the upcoming weeks.
  • A special intention

Your turn! What prayer intentions can I “put to work” for you this week? As always, I will add them to my prayer journal and pray for you by name throughout the week–especially during my morning prayers. Please share your intentions in the comment box below, on the blog Facebook page, or send them to me via the blog contact form. Thank you in advance for your prayers.

Have a great week!

7QT: What I'm ________ing

7QT: What I'm ________ing

7 things I am currently ________ing:

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Reading  

Heather King’s conversion story, Redeemed: Stumbling Toward God, Sanity, and the Peace That Passes All Understanding

So.  Much.  Truth.  Heather’s writing hurts me exactly where I need to hurt.  Have you ever encountered a writer who did that to you?  I read Heather’s story, and I realize, “I need this hurt to convict me; not just to hurt, but to make me want to change.”

Sometimes the prodigal’s jealous brother needs more healing than the prodigal.  Rachel Balducci shared at Edel that motherhood helps her to work on her humility.  The lower she stays to the ground in humility like a child, she says, the less likely her puffed up pride will cause a big tumble.

It’s a beautiful thing to read Heather’s journey from brokenness toward healing and forgiveness.  I admire her courage and humility in this spiritual memoir.

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Watching

Underwater Dreams

I suppose it’s not an -ing since I only watched it once, but I’m still thinking about the film and its message.

The movie chronicles a rag-tag high school underwater robotics team from Arizona.  Despite their poverty and lack of resources, they were able to win the national robotics competition, defeating MIT and several other universities.  After the team wins the competition, the documentary follows the team members’ lives.  Despite their natural aptitude and hard work, their undocumented status makes it difficult for them to flourish.

The film got Philip and I talking about immigration and what our country needs to do to fix the problem presented in the film.  Should illegal immigrants receive in-state tuition?  Should it take 10 years for a young man who wants to join the U.S. Army to become a citizen?  I won’t pretend to have all of the answers, but I do know this: too many Americans take the opportunities made available to us because we were born on this soil for granted.

Still chewing on a lot of it and praying for wisdom for our country’s leaders.  Both of the major political parties need to make compromises to heal this wound.

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Listening

This Inspired Life by Kristin Sanders (podcast)

I’m so glad to have found yet another podcast put out by a faithful Catholic.  I started listening last week and started all the way back at Episode 1.  I’m 10 episodes in, and I’m definitely keeping this podcast on my playlist.  Kristin interviews various guests in the Catholic world, and the topics are wide ranging.  To give you an idea, in the first few episodes, Kristin and her guests have discussed:  talking to kids about sex, creating an Etsy site, women in the Church, child development, loving as Christ loves, and adoption.  Kristin isn’t afraid to ask difficult questions (the ones I really want to hear the guests answer!), and she allows them to unspool their complete answers.  The podcast doesn’t feel rushed at all.  It feels like a casual conversation with a good friend over coffee.  This Inspired Life is my new laundry folding and dish washing soundtrack!

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Listening

Building Bridges Podcast with Cristina Trinidad & Jenna Guizar

Building Bridges just started last month, and I’m so glad I discovered it via a Catholic Women Blogger’s group.  I had the opportunity to meet Jenna at Edel, so it’s fun to get to hear her chat it up with Cristina on the podcast.

I’ve only listened to 2 episodes of Building Bridges, and I’ve really been enjoying it.  Episode 1 was an introduction to Cristina and Jenna.  In Episode 2, the girls interviewed Charity Craig who blogs at The Wounded Dove.  Charity shared with the girls how God was able to take her husband’s affair and turn it into a gift of healing.  When faced with her husband’s infidelity, her first instinct was to be angry.  Then, God helped Charity to consider what parts of herself she needed to work on to help heal herself and her marriage–not that she was responsible for the affair (that was her husband’s choice), but that she knew she had parts of herself that needed fixing.  Through God’s grace, Charity and her husband were able to reconcile and are happily married.  Charity’s story is a beautiful look at how marriage can mirror God’s faithfulness when we go astray.

Looking forward to listening to more!

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Exploring

Lincoln’s wonderful trail systems

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Savoring

My boy who still likes to play dress up and imagine

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Anticipating

Philip’s ribs that he’s making for dinner club

Salted

Salted

Rubbed

Rubbed

Vacuum Sealed

Vacuum Sealed

Ready for their bath

Ready for their bath

In the immersion circulator to cook to juicy perfection for a few days

In the immersion circulator to cook to juicy perfection for a few days

Get in my belly!  Gotta love a man who can make some delicious ribs!

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