by Catherine | May 31, 2012 | Family, Marriage
The 9:45 p.m. weeknight bedtime is officially a habit for me and Philip. We finally got our Blizzards! Hooray!
We turn off whatever we’re watching or stop whatever we’re doing at 9:30 to get ready for bed. Philip preps the coffeemaker for the morning and lets Monty out while I start my getting ready for bed routine (which, by the way, seems to be taking longer and longer with each year!).
We “go and see the babies” together–always Walt and then Janie. In their sleep, Walt is a mini Philip and Janie is a mini Catherine. Walt startles when he hears us come in, sits up in a sleepy fog, smiles at us, and lets us lay him back down. We usually find Janie in some contortionist position that looks impossible to sleep in, and she sleeps through us repositioning her and re-covering her with her blankets.
Philip and I read for awhile in bed. I’m re-reading The Happiest Toddler on the Block by Dr. Harvey Karp, and someday I’ll finish Mockingjay. Philip usually starts dozing after a few minutes of reading and turns in for the night. I try to get my “pillow talk” in with him early so that I don’t end up with sleepy Philip, snoring between sentences.
If I’m not reading a book, I check Facebook or Pinterest for awhile on the laptop. I am self-imposing a strict lights out by 10:30 p.m. policy. I’ve gotten carried away with that quiet time all to myself and have stayed up until 11:30 or midnight a few times! So much for an early bedtime!
Philip and I go in spurts of being good about praying together before bed. We have a great book called Day by Day With the Catechism: Minute Meditations for Every Day Containing An Excerpt From the Catechism, A Reflection, and a Prayer by Peter A. Giersch. We’d alternate who read the passage each night, discuss the reading, and the person who read from the book led us in a spontaneous prayer and closed with a formulaic prayer that the other would join. I’m sad to say that we’ve gotten away from that practice, and I’m putting that book on my nightstand right now to remind me to get back into it. What do you and your family do for prayer time? What about you and your spouse?
Despite being faithful to the 9:45 p.m. bedtime and getting out of bed at 6:00 a.m. for my prayer time, the kiddos haven’t been on board with this plan. Two weeks ago, Janie and Walt were getting up at 6:45 and 7:00 respectively. This week, they wake up minutes after I’m out of bed, and today they woke up when they heard Philip’s alarm clock. So, I’ve had to do my prayer time most days during naptime. It works fine on the days that I actually get to do it, but it would be so nice to have that dedicated time in the morning to start things off right, use naptime to get a few things done, and maybe even have a little break.
How do you other moms out there do it? How much do you sleep? When are you getting up, praying, exercising, getting the stuff done you can’t get done with kids around, and having a little you time? What’s your average day look like?
Despite my best intentions, I can’t seem to make prayer time at the beginning of the day work on a regular basis, and I’m afraid it might mean learning to get by with less sleep. Those of you who know me know that that’s going to be a struggle–for everyone involved! 🙂 I suppose I better start praying that either (1) I learn to get by with less sleep or (2) the children start sleeping in.
by Catherine | May 25, 2012 | Family
Our sweet baby Walt turned one last Saturday. I know it’s clichĂ©, but we can’t believe how quickly the year flew by! I thought I’d share a few pictures of the fun day. Of course, I couldn’t help but think of all of the similar mannerisms Walt had to Janie on her first birthday, and I had to add a few shots from her first birthday as well.
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| Happy Birthday Walt Choo Choo Sign |
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| Our Little Engineer |
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| Our Fam |
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| Janie trying to touch the camera |
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| Walt trying to touch the camera |
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| Jane’s two-handed approach |
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| Walt’s two-handed approach |
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| Jane thinks birthdays rule |
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| Walt thinks birthdays rule |
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| Silly shot. Janie’s fist pump for birthdays being awesome! |
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| Walt just going for it! |
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| Siblings enjoying their cake together |
It was a great celebration, and we look forward to seeing what the next year has in store for our family!
by Catherine | May 19, 2012 | Faith
Every time I get on Facebook or check the news, I’m bound to see some version of anti-Catholicism. Someday, hopefully someday in the near future, I’ll wise up and stop being so shocked. Usually, the anti-Catholicism is in the form of “machine gun apologetics” — when the person jumps from one point to another as quickly as a machine gun fires, aiming to overwhelm any opposition by taking them down any number of erroneous rabbit holes. Invariably, the discussion jumps from priestly pedophilia to fascism to the Inquisition to how much the Church hates science to their oppression of women to their hatred of homosexuals to any other flavor of the day.

The trouble is, our standards for modern journalism are so low, that anyone is allowed to spew out “fact” in the form of opinion and get away with it, and the tendency carries over to the social networking world. As Patrick Coffin, host of Catholic Answers Live, often says, “If I don’t know what an RBI is, the New York Times is not going to let me write a baseball column for them. But journalists who know nothing about Christianity are assigned to cover church news all the time.”
An ill-informed reader grows to hate what they think is the Church because of the lousy journalism or so-called scholarly work that passes as the latest proof of why the Church is backward and in need of reform. I regularly see even those who went through 12 or more pricy years of Catholic education re-posting the untruths and hate about the Church because of how poorly catechized they were. Unfortunately, we can’t blame most of them. They never learned what Mother Church is and what She’s not. It’s a miracle there are as many young, faithful Catholics as there are considering how poorly catechized our parents’ generation was!
I’d hate Catholics if we truly did and believed everything the world says we do, and Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen said he would have, too.
He summed up the world’s hatred toward the Catholic Church better than I ever could. This excerpt is a little lengthy, but every word is worth reading, and I couldn’t pare it down:
“There are not over a hundred people in the United States who hate the Catholic Church. There are millions, however, who hate what they wrongly believe to be the Catholic Church—which is, of course, quite a different thing.
These millions can hardly be blamed for hating Catholics because Catholics ‘adore statues;’ because they ‘put the Blessed Mother on the same level with God;’ because they ‘say indulgence is a permission to commit sin;’ because the Pope ‘is a Fascist;’ because the Church ‘is the defender of Capitalism.’ If the Church taught or believed any one of these things, it should be hated, but the fact is that the Church does not believe nor teach any one of them. It follows then that the hatred of the millions is directed against error and not against truth. As a matter of fact, if we Catholics believed all of the untruths and lies which were said against the Church, we probably would hate the Church a thousand times more than they do.
If I were not a Catholic, and were looking for the true Church in the world today, I would look for the one Church which did not get along well with the world; in other words, I would look for the Church which the world hates.
My reason for doing this would be, that if Christ is in any one of the churches of the world today, He must still be hated as He was when He was on earth in the flesh. If you would find Christ today, then find the Church that does not get along with the world. Look for the Church that is hated by the world, as Christ was hated by the world. Look for the Church which is accused of being behind the times, as Our Lord was accused of being ignorant and never having learned. Look for the Church which men sneer at as socially inferior, as they sneered at Our Lord because He came from Nazareth. Look for the Church which is accused of having a devil, as Our Lord was accused of being possessed by Beelzebub, the Prince of Devils. Look for the Church which the world rejects because it claims it is infallible, as Pilate rejected Christ because he called Himself the Truth. Look for the Church which amid the confusion of conflicting opinions, its members love as they love Christ, and respect its voice as the very voice of its Founder, and the suspicion will grow, that if the Church is unpopular with the spirit of the world, then it is unworldly, and if it is unworldly, it is other-worldly. Since it is other-worldly, it is infinitely loved and infinitely hated as was Christ Himself. … the Catholic Church is the only Church existing today which goes back to the time of Christ. History is so very clear on this point, it is curious how many miss its obviousness…”
So, I’m ever so slowly learning to try and stop being surprised every time I open up Facebook or read the news. When “machine gun apologetics,” lousy journalism, and poor excuses for scholarship rule the day, there’s no time for a civilized, fair debate free of red herrings, ridicule, straw men, or any other fallacy. If the goal of debate is to find truth, one would think that the non-Catholic want to find out from the Catholic Church and its faithful what they actually believe. After all, then the non-Catholic could go on to future debates with more clout because they would be able to accurately articulate the Church’s position. Unfortunately, it seems to me that the goal of most debates, especially those anywhere online, is less about truth than making the other person look like a bigoted idiot.
There’s a lot of work to be done for us Catholics. I can’t go on thinking it’s enough to be persecuted just because Christ promised it’d be this way. After all, if people in his day called him Beelzebub, should we really be shocked at some of the names launched our way for being His followers? He promised this kind of hatred. “Blessed are you when men revile you and persecute you and utter all kinds of evil against you falsely on my account. Rejoice and be glad, for your reward is great in heaven, for so men persecuted the prophets who were before you” (Matthew 5:11-12).
It might tempt us to think we’re something special just because we’re being persecuted, but we better think again. We don’t need to be doormats, but we don’t need to be c
rusaders at every moment either. It’s a delicate dance. As tempting as it is to flush out every red herring or straw man I read about the Church in the news article com boxes or on Facebook, I’m slowly learning that most people are more in need of conversion of heart than whatever words I can type.
Sometimes I’ll point someone in the general direction of a reliable, Catholic resource like Catholic Answers Live, other times I’ll give a short summary of the Church’s position on a particular issue with citations from the Catechism, and other times I’ll bring that person to prayer by name. Entrusting that person to the Blessed Mother or to Our Lord is more powerful than any fleeting vindication I might feel from having “won” a Facebook debate. What victory is it if I haven’t revealed God’s love?
I’m slowly learning to pray for discernment on how to handle these situations. It’d be a lot easier to defend the Faith if I weren’t a broken sinner that the world could point to as a hypocrite, but I suppose the beauty of it all is that the world got Jesus in spite of Judas. God continues to convert hearts despite my failings and miserable blunderings at revealing His love.
Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with perseverance the race that is set before us, looking to Jesus the pioneer and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider him who endured from sinners such hostility against himself, so that you may not grow weary or fainthearted. In your struggle against sin you have not yet resisted to the point of shedding your blood (Heb 12:1-4).
So, on with the race set before us. May we keep our eyes always on Jesus, “the pioneer and perfecter of our faith.”
by Catherine | May 17, 2012 | Faith, Marriage
All was going well with the new bedtime. I was feeling more rested, and I was thrilled to be done with the fire alarm morning routine. I woke up last Wednesday without an alarm at 6:30, and felt amazing. Unfortunately, the kiddos woke up shortly thereafter so I didn’t get in my quiet prayer time. It had to be done at naptime instead.
Then, I went to a concert Thursday night that kept me up past my new bedtime. It was super fun, and it was worth the late night! Then, it was the weekend, and the new bedtime didn’t apply because it was the weekend. Then, it was Mother’s Day and Philip started a week of working nights, and I just can’t seem to sleep very well when Philip’s gone.
Blah, blah, blah. Excuses, excuses. I know, it’s all very pathetic, but I’m getting back on track–TONIGHT! I will be in bed by 9:45, and I will continue to keep my bedtime. It’s too good for me not to! I’m enforcing the new bedtime around here for all weeknights unless an out-of-the-ordinary event comes up (i.e., an out of town visitor, family emergency, etc.). I know I sound old and lame, but, hey, I need to be old and lame. When you’ve got two little ones and a husband who works a crazy schedule like Philip’s, routine is key. I’m okay with being old and lame so long as it means domestic bliss around here. Philip and the kiddos are the ones I’m doing this all for anyway!
So, in short, I didn’t keep my bedtime last week, and we didn’t get to go out for Blizzards. Darn! If at first you don’t succeed… If we keep our weeknight bedtime for a solid week, we’re going to Dairy Queen for Blizzards next Wednesday. French Silk Pie Blizzard, here I come!

I’m looking forward to the quietness of the morning when I’m rested enough to wake up before the kids. Since I am going to be in bed at 9:45 tonight, I’m setting my alarm for 6:00 so that I can get up and have my coffee & prayer time without interruption. If I picture Jesus in the living room, waiting for me to join Him for prayer time, I get my rear end out of bed. The coffee helps, too. My new coffee creamers make that cup of coffee oh so delicious! I usually have two of these in the fridge at all times. Variety is the spice of life, they say.
That’s what gets me to bed early. What would you need to motivate you to be early to bed and early to rise?
by Catherine | May 17, 2012 | Family, The Homefront
I was busy crafting away last week! Ever since I joined Pinterest, I’ve been adding projects and crafts to do. I decided to tackle a few of them, and I thought I’d share pictures.
Craft #1: Mother’s Day Cards for the Grandmas and Great-Grandmas
(original idea found here)
I traced Janie’s hand on green paper and cut it out. I made the flower pot out of patterned scrapbook paper and cut out the flowers before attaching gluing them to Janie’s fingertips. I bent the petals to give them a little dimension. Janie loved this project. “I make flower hands! Flower hands for grandmas!”
Craft #2: Birdseed Cookies
(original idea found here, but I used this site for instructions)
You need:
4 cups birdseed
3/4 cup flour
1/2 cup water
3 tablespoons of corn syrup
Mix ingredients in a bowl to make a big, sticky mess! Select cookie cutter shapes (I recommend using 3-4 inch shapes). Spread parchment paper on a baking sheet. Grease cookie cutters with cooking spray. Press the seed mixture into the cookie cutters with the back of a spoon, and use a straw to leave a hole.
Bake in the oven at 170 for an hour. Flip after thirty minutes. The alternative to baking is waiting for them to dry for several hours. Bake ’em if you don’t feel like waiting!
Voila! Birdseed cookie! If your feathered friends aren’t interested in the hanging cookie, consider leaving them out on a flat surface like your deck rail. We love watching the birdies and squirrels come to nibble on the seed cookies. Jane watches the action on the deck, and she announces whenever we have a visitor.
Craft #3 (I suppose it’s more of a baking craft): Ice cream cone cakes
(original idea from Betty Crocker’s site)
Use a Ziploc bag and cut off a corner to pour the cake batter into the ice cream cones.
Fill 3/4 of the way with batter.
Follow mix instructions or use your favorite cake recipe.
My resourceful husband cut a hole into an empty cereal puff container to serve as a frosting stand. Clever, huh?
What’s an ice cream cone without sprinkles?! We added different colors to the frosting. We love the Wilton dyes. You can find them in
the baking section of most craft stores.
Craft #4: Tile Coaster Tutorial
(original idea from The Cottage Home blog)
These were so fun to make, and they’re super simple!
Buy some plain white glazed tiles at your local hardware store. We found a 100-pack for less than $20.
Cut out squares of your favorite scrapbook paper. Mod Podge them to the tile. Add 2-3 coats of Mod Podge over the paper, making sure that each coat dries completely before adding additional coats. Sponge brushes work great for applying the Mod Podge.


Once the Mod Podge is completely dry, apply a clear acrylic sealer (outside!) to the tiles. I used Krylon brand. This will make the coasters water resistant. Don’t use warm beverages on the coasters for at least a month and make sure the acrylic sealer completely covered the entire surface of the tile. Otherwise, moisture will build up and cause the paper to bubble.
Apply felt to the bottom of the tiles with fabric glue.
Voila! You have a cute little gift! I bundled mine together with ribbon and gave them to the great-grandmas, grandmas, my sister, and sisters-in-law for Mother’s Day.
Now, we’re gearing up to celebrate Walt’s birthday on Saturday. Can’t wait!