025 Summer Potpourri

Sorry I missed you last week!  We decided to skip town and head to Kansas City while our house’s main floor is getting a remodel.  That picture is our family at Worlds of Fun as we waited out a rainstorm that never ended.

Trip recap:

New favorite thing: Donuts and drinks on the parish playground after Mass.  Kids play, parents catch up.  Everyone wins!

What I’ve been reading:

Book Buddies With Jane & Friends

  • If you don’t know what I’m talking about, go back to Episode 013 Starting a Kids’ Book Club
  • We have our next meeting this weekend to discuss Lisa Hendey’s book, The Mystery at Midnight ( from her Chime Travelers series about twins who go back in time to solve mysteries about saints)
  • Listener Sheila contacted me to say that her daughters started their own book club this summer!  They already met once and are hoping to read 3 books this summer.

Catechesis programs for little ones: What do you know about Catechesis of the Good Shepherd?  How does your church reach the little ones?

The Well-Behaved Child by Dr. John Rosemond check discipline system

  • 6 Checks (keep track on dry erase board in kitchen)
  • Checks 1-3 are warnings (“buffer zone,” limit this for older kids)
  • Check 4: Lose dessert
  • Check 5: Lose screens
  • Check 6: Go to bed 1 hour early

Amanda wants to know how I get the kids to “work it out”

  • In response to my annual summer PSA on FB to the neighbors, letting them know that they’re going to hear a lot of screaming from my house that they haven’t been hearing all winter
  • Summer rules
    • Bodies have private parts that stay private
    • Keep your body to yourself
    • Tidy up before you leave
    • Work it out
      • Walt’s 1st grade teacher taught them: Unless there’s blood, barf, or a bathroom emergency, you can probably handle it.
      • Talk to the person you’re having a problem with.  Talk to them again. And again. Ask friends for help if you need to.  Come to an adult if you really can’t work it out or if it’s an emergency.
    • When they come to tattle, whine, or get me to referee I say
      • That doesn’t sound like an emergency.  That sounds like something you need to work out with _____.  Come back if it’s an emergency.
      • I let them know with my body language that I’m not engaging them on it.  
      • They come less
    • How do you help your kids learn to work it out?  Do you have household ground rules that are helping everyone to have a happier summer?  Send them my way! I want to hear about them!

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